Soldato
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Yes, 'to the internet' and all that... but I’m having a mid-life-crisis…
I'm 21, and since I was in sixth form, studying double art, media and photography I decided that I did not want to go to university. That was when I was about 16-17 yrs
I left sixth form with good grades, and worked for my self for a while before I pretty much walked into the best job I could have wished for, the company I worked for went bust (credit crunch) and that was the end of that. I still work for my self amongst other things but only recently have I started entertaining the idea of going to university. My mother mentioned it in passing conversation ‘why don’t you go to university while you still can’ and it’s got me thinking further.
The idea of needing a qualification to do the things I could already do so well just did not sit right with me when I was in sixth form. At the time I made the right choice, but now looking back I’m starting to wonder why I did not go down a different route.
My worries are that when I was at sixth form I skipped all of the university ‘stuff’; enrolment, research, looking for courses and everything like that. I pretty much know nothing about university and I only know one person (my girlfriend) that goes. I don’t understand how it works, how I join or even where to look. I still can’t grasp how people find out about courses in uni’s miles and miles away and how some courses are reputed better than others.
My fears are that I'll be taking a big step backwards. It will be odd coming out of a full time job, out of self employment and then going to uni’. I've got a car, a few outgoings and a nice setup, but I think this is about my last chance to go to uni’.
The biggest problem for me will be starting university as my girlfriend is finishing. I’ve never intended to go to uni’, and we have always kind of been waiting for her to finish training as a teacher and settle into a job; Then we could start making plans.
Me going to uni’ now would be a big set back, but at the same time It could give me the slips of paper I need to bring even more to the table.
I've had a quick google about, but all of the things I'm reading is just like a foreign language. I don’t know which courses are which, what prior qualifications I need or anything. I just don’t understand how the whole thing works.
My main questions are:
1. At 21, self employed and having recently been made redundant from a full time dream job - can I get into university in the same manner as I could have a few year ago when I as leaving sixth form? Or am I now classed as a ‘mature student’?
2. Is it possible / feasible to attend full time university without having to sacrifice some of my current life’s little luxuries? (car, phone, projector etc) My family have a few funds put to one side for me for uni’, and I would like to keep borrowing to a minimum.
The path I’m looking down is that of an Art teacher in secondary school. I’ve googled it but it is still just not making much sense. I’ve just called my girlfriend (yea at 1AM lol) to ask her about her teacher course. She is always telling me about it but I’ve never understood what she has been banging on about. And the path she took towards becoming a teacher seems to be totally different from the paths I have been researching. She has done some stuff about child, health and social care. And is now doing her dissertation, then a PGCE. (The PGCE, as far as I can tell ‘turns her into’ a teacher :S)
I realise I probably sound completely thick with these questions, but honestly it seems like it was SO long ago when I last looked into going to university and I cannot remember a thing about it! I know I should go and see someone in person to ask them but I’d like some input, suggestions and opinions on the matter from people who have been, attending or due to attend university; Especially those heading towards a career in education.
cheers,
Rick
I'm 21, and since I was in sixth form, studying double art, media and photography I decided that I did not want to go to university. That was when I was about 16-17 yrs
I left sixth form with good grades, and worked for my self for a while before I pretty much walked into the best job I could have wished for, the company I worked for went bust (credit crunch) and that was the end of that. I still work for my self amongst other things but only recently have I started entertaining the idea of going to university. My mother mentioned it in passing conversation ‘why don’t you go to university while you still can’ and it’s got me thinking further.
The idea of needing a qualification to do the things I could already do so well just did not sit right with me when I was in sixth form. At the time I made the right choice, but now looking back I’m starting to wonder why I did not go down a different route.
My worries are that when I was at sixth form I skipped all of the university ‘stuff’; enrolment, research, looking for courses and everything like that. I pretty much know nothing about university and I only know one person (my girlfriend) that goes. I don’t understand how it works, how I join or even where to look. I still can’t grasp how people find out about courses in uni’s miles and miles away and how some courses are reputed better than others.
My fears are that I'll be taking a big step backwards. It will be odd coming out of a full time job, out of self employment and then going to uni’. I've got a car, a few outgoings and a nice setup, but I think this is about my last chance to go to uni’.
The biggest problem for me will be starting university as my girlfriend is finishing. I’ve never intended to go to uni’, and we have always kind of been waiting for her to finish training as a teacher and settle into a job; Then we could start making plans.
Me going to uni’ now would be a big set back, but at the same time It could give me the slips of paper I need to bring even more to the table.
I've had a quick google about, but all of the things I'm reading is just like a foreign language. I don’t know which courses are which, what prior qualifications I need or anything. I just don’t understand how the whole thing works.
My main questions are:
1. At 21, self employed and having recently been made redundant from a full time dream job - can I get into university in the same manner as I could have a few year ago when I as leaving sixth form? Or am I now classed as a ‘mature student’?
2. Is it possible / feasible to attend full time university without having to sacrifice some of my current life’s little luxuries? (car, phone, projector etc) My family have a few funds put to one side for me for uni’, and I would like to keep borrowing to a minimum.
The path I’m looking down is that of an Art teacher in secondary school. I’ve googled it but it is still just not making much sense. I’ve just called my girlfriend (yea at 1AM lol) to ask her about her teacher course. She is always telling me about it but I’ve never understood what she has been banging on about. And the path she took towards becoming a teacher seems to be totally different from the paths I have been researching. She has done some stuff about child, health and social care. And is now doing her dissertation, then a PGCE. (The PGCE, as far as I can tell ‘turns her into’ a teacher :S)
I realise I probably sound completely thick with these questions, but honestly it seems like it was SO long ago when I last looked into going to university and I cannot remember a thing about it! I know I should go and see someone in person to ask them but I’d like some input, suggestions and opinions on the matter from people who have been, attending or due to attend university; Especially those heading towards a career in education.
cheers,
Rick