We all know the saying, 'don't put your Johnson in crazy'. Well I haven't, yet I've still got the receiving end of it.
Backstory... Moved into the perfect place 2 months ago (renting). Property consists of 2 rented properties and the landlords house. Landlord and wife are absolutely lovely, couldn't say a single bad word about either. I update him on anything that might be a nuisance and he instantly has solved both little niggles with the property I had. A genuinely nice landlord (rare!).
The neighbour renting, has been here for 8 years. She seemed fairly nice, my landlord said it was just her in her property but she has a regular 'guy friend' pop round. None of my business so don't care. Anyway, I introduced my self, handed over my number and said the usuals, to call me in case of any emergency or if I make noise etc.
The location of the property is very remote, so instead of leaving it there, I asked if she would like a tea. She did. Fast forward to the end of the first month, there is a silver band playing in the village, she asked if I'd like to go with her and her 'man friend'. Expected as we had been texting small talk, she would ask how I am, commented on the fact she had seen a few girls go into my property. At which I wasn't really fussed about as it seemed in jest...
So, I invite my mum over, and the 4 of us go to this silver band thing. Cool, all normal right?
I started to notice a pattern in texts received from her, basically passive aggressive messages when ever I had a female friend over as she can see my front door from her sofa. And if I didn't reply to messages like "Oh, another one? Typical man". She would send others like "Ignore me then, not important, just forget about me". At this point (3 weeks ago), I started selectively replying, thinking she's just lonely but a bit clingy so I'll start creating a gap. Turns out, this was a bad idea.
Over the previous texts when stuff wasn't insane, I mentioned I was dating a girl and I actually liked her. She came up in conversation as she asked who's car it was as it's been here a bunch of times.
Yea, fair question but a little intrusive.
Fast forward to the last few days. She has gone full on crazy. I've stopped replying to her but she has carried out threats and wild accusations. Some being that I'm paying prostitutes to be here, I'm throwing parties (not had a single one) and that I make noise all the time...
Since I've been here, my landlord said he's not heard me once. I am a very respectful neighbour. As for the prossies... Just lol. The threats though... This is where I'm crossing the line.
She has told me she has my landlord around her little finger, a key to my place that he gave her. She said she will tell him, and I quote: "What a mistake allowing you to rent here it is". And she also sent a text saying my landlord won't stand for the party being thrown and she will tell him if I do...
I spoke to him last week and asked if I can have a few friends round, including my mum! It's a board game night, about 8 of us. He's away but has a house sitter and I asked just so I didn't break the peace. And today I spole to the house sitter and mentioned it and said if we get to loud, to let me know. She was lovely.
The final threat and the worst... She said she has this girls number I've been dating (impossible, I've played poker long enough to see past this bluff) and she will ring her... Which is fine, as there is nothing she can say to her that will cause issues. But it's the nature of the threat! My personal life has been invaded by this absolute NUT job and I'm now scared to 1) invite a friend over, female or male 2) ever leave my property as she has a key and god knows what she's capable of and 3) relax in my own bloody home.
I've got all the crazies texts, including my replies. My mum said to contact the police after speaking to my landlord when he gets back. As it's clear as day she seems to have this idea in her mind that I'm some **** and I, again, quoting "Treat women like ****" and "You're sick"...
So yea, OcUK... What do I do? I LOVE this place but now I fear even just living here, in the time I've written this she has sent 2 more threats via text.
I invited my mum round earlier as I just needed to vent, and she text me saying "Yep, another **** at your door, you disgust me, I'm going to give her a stern word when she leaves"... She didn't say anything, I imagine she noticed it was my mum. But still??????
Help!
TLDR; I live next to a bunny boiler.
Backstory... Moved into the perfect place 2 months ago (renting). Property consists of 2 rented properties and the landlords house. Landlord and wife are absolutely lovely, couldn't say a single bad word about either. I update him on anything that might be a nuisance and he instantly has solved both little niggles with the property I had. A genuinely nice landlord (rare!).
The neighbour renting, has been here for 8 years. She seemed fairly nice, my landlord said it was just her in her property but she has a regular 'guy friend' pop round. None of my business so don't care. Anyway, I introduced my self, handed over my number and said the usuals, to call me in case of any emergency or if I make noise etc.
The location of the property is very remote, so instead of leaving it there, I asked if she would like a tea. She did. Fast forward to the end of the first month, there is a silver band playing in the village, she asked if I'd like to go with her and her 'man friend'. Expected as we had been texting small talk, she would ask how I am, commented on the fact she had seen a few girls go into my property. At which I wasn't really fussed about as it seemed in jest...
So, I invite my mum over, and the 4 of us go to this silver band thing. Cool, all normal right?
I started to notice a pattern in texts received from her, basically passive aggressive messages when ever I had a female friend over as she can see my front door from her sofa. And if I didn't reply to messages like "Oh, another one? Typical man". She would send others like "Ignore me then, not important, just forget about me". At this point (3 weeks ago), I started selectively replying, thinking she's just lonely but a bit clingy so I'll start creating a gap. Turns out, this was a bad idea.
Over the previous texts when stuff wasn't insane, I mentioned I was dating a girl and I actually liked her. She came up in conversation as she asked who's car it was as it's been here a bunch of times.
Yea, fair question but a little intrusive.
Fast forward to the last few days. She has gone full on crazy. I've stopped replying to her but she has carried out threats and wild accusations. Some being that I'm paying prostitutes to be here, I'm throwing parties (not had a single one) and that I make noise all the time...
Since I've been here, my landlord said he's not heard me once. I am a very respectful neighbour. As for the prossies... Just lol. The threats though... This is where I'm crossing the line.
She has told me she has my landlord around her little finger, a key to my place that he gave her. She said she will tell him, and I quote: "What a mistake allowing you to rent here it is". And she also sent a text saying my landlord won't stand for the party being thrown and she will tell him if I do...
I spoke to him last week and asked if I can have a few friends round, including my mum! It's a board game night, about 8 of us. He's away but has a house sitter and I asked just so I didn't break the peace. And today I spole to the house sitter and mentioned it and said if we get to loud, to let me know. She was lovely.
The final threat and the worst... She said she has this girls number I've been dating (impossible, I've played poker long enough to see past this bluff) and she will ring her... Which is fine, as there is nothing she can say to her that will cause issues. But it's the nature of the threat! My personal life has been invaded by this absolute NUT job and I'm now scared to 1) invite a friend over, female or male 2) ever leave my property as she has a key and god knows what she's capable of and 3) relax in my own bloody home.
I've got all the crazies texts, including my replies. My mum said to contact the police after speaking to my landlord when he gets back. As it's clear as day she seems to have this idea in her mind that I'm some **** and I, again, quoting "Treat women like ****" and "You're sick"...
So yea, OcUK... What do I do? I LOVE this place but now I fear even just living here, in the time I've written this she has sent 2 more threats via text.
I invited my mum round earlier as I just needed to vent, and she text me saying "Yep, another **** at your door, you disgust me, I'm going to give her a stern word when she leaves"... She didn't say anything, I imagine she noticed it was my mum. But still??????
Help!
TLDR; I live next to a bunny boiler.
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