Soldato
I have zero intentions of ever having children, so that point is moot. I'll probably just leave everything to my Sister.
What if one child has kids, do the grand children get an extra share?
I'm not really fussed of 'being dealt the same hand'. If I had two children and one was, say, an investment banker, I may consider opting against an equal split if the other was, say, a profession session musician (or something).Equal. Unless there had been some inherent disadvantage such as disability, deformity or difficulty preventing one of the beneficiaries being dealt the same hand as the others so to speak.
I would think, or at least hope, in the above instance the other beneficiaries would give thought if an equal share approach had been chosen but there was a greater need.
I only have one child but the idea of one offspring receiving a greater share than the other is terrible, unless you have a severely strained relationship with one if your children then they should be treated equally.
Just go to other extreme. One of your sons has a mansion and a ferrari, the other works in a supermarket.
Who would you give your money to?