Some times I get in to bed and every thing irrates me.
Hot, cold, a small crease in the sheets.... basically anything.
I wouldnt say I worry about not going to sleep.
I shut my eyes, think of nothing... but the automatic process of drifting in to cloud 9 doesnt happen.
In the past when I used to go to the gym, even that didnt help me sleep, I'v also had episodes, where I'v come slightly drunk on a work day, and still not been able to sleep.
Some time however I just know even before I'v gone to bed I wont sleep. Too much energy, or mental energy. Sometimes it could take me along time to actually fall asleep - 45-1hr...
Like I said before I cant really find the one variable that ties this all together.
Some freinds of mine seem to think its too much computer...... that could be possible, but again, it never used to affect me, and I'v tried reading before bed and it didnt work.
Seems to me like you have developed a maintenance cycle.
Can't sleep -> get frustrated -> makes you more awake -> time drags on, get concerned about 'not sleeping' -> mind gets more active -> become very awake mentally so can't sleep -> get frustrated
...and so on.
My recommendation; short course of CBT to prevent negative automatic thoughts and anxiety. Can be had on the NHS through your GP.
