Is anyone's GF an escort?

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Ive actually been in a simular situation.. But i only dated the girl twice. Then i found out she actually ran her own little escort agency and was one of the escorts.. its fair to say i ran for the hills. She thought i was strange for doing so. Dude this will eat away at you.. and if im honest the doubt has now been set in your mind that she would even think such a thing.. sorry but id kick her to the kerb. Theres more out there

Did you not twig when she wanted paying at the end of the nights. :p
 
Sounds to me like shes got some serious self esteem issues and is trying to find "a way out". Why not sit down and talk about why she wants to be an escort? Surely she can't want to be one but maybe she feels like she's run out of other options?

Maybe suggest a part time college course to get some qualifications and get here life on track. A different sort of night-school I guess...

At lunch she was saying she actually wants to be one! She enjoys sex, is a nympho so said she may as well get paid for it to get some extra money and is happy to give me a share of it if I'm OK with her doing it.
 
theres no way i'd let my girlfriend take other guys out - whether its for "other activities" or not!
the thought of some of weird guy leering at her and putting his hands on her makes my skin crawl. think i'd be forced to kill the guy if that ever happened!
 
yes, it would be illegal to advertise a prostitute service so the advertise that you are paying for company only and anything else is purely consentual but sex is an unwritten part of the deal ( a mate I used to work with often used them )
It's only the soliciting that is illegal. The act of paying for sex is legal, you just can't ask or offer legally.
 
[FnG]magnolia;11017187 said:
Drop it like it's hot, Holmes.

There are plenty of really nice, attractive, attentive, caring ladies out there who don't want to sleep with other men for a job. Go find one.

Correct - very true.

Munkeh is also right. I've dated girls like this. They are BAD BAD news. Really. Seriously. She wants to be a prostitute??! Why are you even questioning this? Get out the relationship. The kind of rubbish that we put ourselves through in relationships means we totally lose perspective on things and this is an awful situation. It doesn't matter how horny she is.

Forget the fantasising about pimping. I can't belive you're questioning it. She will be having sex with other men on a daily basis. You really think you're worth that little?

Your girlfriend sounds like a basketcase. I should know, I've dated a few.
 
At lunch she was saying she actually wants to be one! She enjoys sex, is a nympho so said she may as well get paid for it to get some extra money and is happy to give me a share of it if I'm OK with her doing it.

If you don't mind it it sounds good on paper. But the thing I would consider is you'll probably let slip to your mates about this and they might let slip to any future girlfriends about you effectively pimping you girlfriend out. Then who'll be the one doing a runner?
 
Did you not twig when she wanted paying at the end of the nights. :p

lol

She was actually looking for a bf so there was no charge lol. She later asked if i was intrested in being an escort myself lol. Shes got 3 male escorts on her site.

madness

and to the OP.. so shes admited that she was planning on sleeping with the "clients"?
 
Escorts come in 3 varieties:

a) Non-shaggers, company only, who make little money
b) Shaggers, who make a lot of money
c) Non-shaggers of the uber-elite, who make a lot of money and are very rare

I have a friend who was an a) for some extra cash, but for it to be a survivable income, needs to be a b) or a c).
 
At lunch she was saying she actually wants to be one! She enjoys sex, is a nympho so said she may as well get paid for it to get some extra money and is happy to give me a share of it if I'm OK with her doing it.

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think about it.
 
At lunch she was saying she actually wants to be one! She enjoys sex, is a nympho so said she may as well get paid for it to get some extra money and is happy to give me a share of it if I'm OK with her doing it.

Sounds like shes already doing other guys and now wants to legitamize it by getting paid.

If she wants to be a escort let her, but then go out and shag as many girls as you can and take 20p off them at the end of the night. Tell her you enjoy sex and might as well get paid for it, see how she reacts then.
 
The fact that she is seriously considering being an escort should be cause for alarm to be honest, it speaks volumes about her morals and attitude towards you.

On the more technical side of things when she gets older and business drys up (way hey!) she'll wish she had the qualifications to keep up the rate of pay that she'd gotten used to while being an escort.

That's not even taking into account the risk of pregnancy, STI/Ds and rape.
 
Sig works for me.

Can't believe you'd say anything but an immediate no to her. Has she actually said she wants to do it to get paid for sex? Or does she just not understand that she wouldn't make much money from it unless she was sleeping with clients?
 
If you are not 100% comfortable with it from the outset then you already know the answer.

You will only let it ruin your relationship if you do not talk it through and explain all the issues you have with her seeing someone else. Help her got to college or uni to get further qualifications. This is hard work whilst working but can be done and in a year you can have some decent ones.

I wish you luck and hope she comes round to seeing sense. If not ditch her and better luck next time as you dont want to put yourself under such strain and worry.

steve
 
[ASSE]Hinchy;11017342 said:
Sig works for me.

Can't believe you'd say anything but an immediate no to her. Has she actually said she wants to do it to get paid for sex? Or does she just not understand that she wouldn't make much money from it unless she was sleeping with clients?
^She said she wants to get paid for sex
[Totality]Hinchy; said:
At lunch she was saying she actually wants to be one! She enjoys sex, is a nympho so said she may as well get paid for it to get some extra money and is happy to give me a share of it if I'm OK with her doing it.

She enjoys sex and may aswell get paid for it.

...wtf. Show her the door man!
 
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