Yeah, but still, how are other people telling him what they think of the controller going to possibly have any helpful bearing on how he finds it?I'd hardly class dodgy controller design as "trivial" as it's the main interface for all games! You also can't judge it from a quick hold in a store or even a short play at a mates house. So yes, I'd consider it extremely important if you're only going to buy one console whether or not you can play for the periods you want to play for!
At the end of the day, the only experience that will hold the OP in good stead, is his own. No need to bog this down with yet another console war.