Is my staff member "flirting" or just being friendly.....

ChocAndGray said:
What are your thoughts on the most recent message?
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Completely ignore the kisses like they didn't happen, don't even comment on it or bring them up again. Keep her guessing a little on that front.

If I was being suspicious, she is just testing you to see what your reaction is like.

Just be you and check yourself a little more due to your position. Who tends to send the first message when these convos crop up? Out of work chat I mean
 
This bint sounds kind of desperate, you have checked out she's the real McCoy, Crocodile Dundee style?


I am not sure how many days have passed from when you initially asked for dating advice, but I am wondering if you are really cut out for this gigolo lark?

You should have satisfied your cardinal desires there by now, and be saying tata to her and be on to her sister, if you want to do this sort of thing properly ;) Sheesh, is it something in young people's tea, like bromide, these days ..? Get on with it! :)
 
Chris Wilson said:
This bint sounds kind of desperate, you have checked out she's the real McCoy, Crocodile Dundee style?


I am not sure how many days have passed from when you initially asked for dating advice, but I am wondering if you are really cut out for this gigolo lark?

You should have satisfied your cardinal desires there by now, and be saying tata to her and be on to her sister, if you want to do this sort of thing properly ;) Sheesh, is it something in young people's tea, like bromide, these days ..? Get on with it! :)
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Paging @hurfdurf
 
The Legend said:
I never really reach out for advise or ask questions on the subject of women and dating but lately I've had a bit of a headache with a girl I met on Tinder.

So we both matched, chatted and I swiped her number and thought of pursuing her for a bit of beef stew. Anyway she calls me up and we speak for a bit and she seemed alright at first, I could tell she was up for meeting. She said she was a hairdresser and had a child. She looked really good in her pics as she did photoshoots and beauty contests. So anyway it was a week or so later we decided to meet up.

I don't know about you guys but I geniunally like to take the lead. So I at first suggested a few drinks! She said no! She said she wanted to have something to eat and I suggested a Chinese and have it at mine or hers and she said "I'm not like that". She said it had to be KFC so I thought go on then! She wanted Chicken.

I had no car at the time so picked her up in my Ford Transit van. It was after I finished work so about 10pm she wouldn't eat inside KFC as she had gym clothes on. She kept moaning about wanted to get out of the city and eat the KFC. Anyway we picked it up (I paid) we never really made it far, we eat it in a car park, kissed and went to mine.

I won't go into much detail but she got the Full Tony Williams Experience and I dropped her off. She constantly called me, I woke up with 6 missed calls one day. Looking back it was bad the calls kept coming all day and night.

I met her a few more times at hers, she's alright but there's no potential for a relationship. She's quite rude, lied about having a job, keeps trying to get me to pay for KFCs and chippies (and no she isn't fat)

So anyway it took me months and months of ignoring calls and texts to get rid of her, this was all over Christmas and I pretty much got rid of her. I met another bird and things are going really well and we've began a relationship. Anyway only just lately the KFC bird started calling me again asking for me to do bad things to her. I decline her.

Anyway I've told the new girl this story too so she knows and trusts me. Should I be completely upfront with the KFC girl and tell her I'm with someone else and she how she takes it? She's definitely the angry, stalker type so I don't want to reject her.

Or should I keep ignoring her and hope she re-gets the message? I block her but she calls from private numbers. I don't want to change my number.

She only just started calling me again yesterday. She also introduced me to the kid on the third date and I feel such an idiot falling into that trap.
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Be Tony Williams, OP, and not this soon-to-be laid off for not getting laid dude you seem intent on being.
 
That initial back and forth reads like 2 12 year olds talking, lol.
And you've been on the forum for 5 years, lmao.
Also, haha, never fraternize with your subordinates, roflcopter.
 
I'm confused, this isn't the office chair woman from the other thread? That would be hilarious if it were :p.....
 
ChocAndGray said:
And that's my concern. I'm one mis-step from a potential HR disaster.
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You’ve already shared her private conversion on a public forum without her consent. It’s likely been indexed by Google and picked up by mumsnet admins as we speak.

You’ll probably get your P45 on Monday and a letter from the solicitor.
 
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LiE said:
You’ve already shared her private conversion on a public forum without her consent. It’s likely been indexed by Google and picked up by mumsnet admins as we speak.

You’ll probably get your P45 on Monday and a letter from the solicitor.
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Yep, he might as well go full bore at it over the weekend and be damned <LOL> There's no way on God's earth i could go back to working for a big company with all this HR and PC rubbish, it's great to be able know that the only person who can sack me is, err, me :)
 
As always there is only one way to find out if a woman is interested or not - ask her out!

Stop with all this dilly dallying and just ask her straight up if she wants to grab a drink or milkshare or McFlurry whatever on a specific day, then you will know your answer.

Women like a man who knows what he wants, goes for it and is confident as well as direct about his intentions.
 
A2Z said:
As always there is only one way to find out if a woman is interested or not - ask her out!

Stop with all this dilly dallying and just ask her straight up if she wants to grab a drink or milkshare or McFlurry whatever on a specific day, then you will know your answer.

Women like a man who knows what he wants, goes for it and is confident as well as direct about his intentions.
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Indeed, how true, is your real name Donald, perchance? ;)
 
ChocAndGray said:
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There are three options. She is scared, she is just being friendly or you are going to get sacked and maybe have your name in the papers at some stage.

ChocAndGray said:
What are your thoughts on the most recent message?
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Why are you texting her on your day off before 8am? If she was the one that started the texting that day you may be onto something.

Feek said:
Yet again GD has disappointed me. Over sixty replies and nobody has asked for pictures of the colleague.
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Nobody really believes she is real.
 
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