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One of my (24f) colleagues at work (25m) is being very unfriendly at work and it's starting to get to me but I don't know whether it counts as bullying or not. Some of the things he does:
1) Ignores me, pulls faces and moves away from me when I speak to him.
2) Calls me a b**ch and continues to even after multiple requests from me for him to stop. He tries to pass it of in a joking way.
3) Makes up lies and/or twists the truth to make me look bad. For example, he told everyone i put a special lock on the computer so that only I can use it because I don't want anyone to use it - the computer is broken and not even I can log onto it. He knows this - i've told everyone multiple times the computer is broken and i'm trying to get it fixed.
4) He has told my boss he doesn't want to work with me but has given no good excuse as to why.
I've had enough. I don't want to work with him either due to the reasons above. I feel like my boss isn't taking me seriously - though I haven't told him that my colleague calls me a b**ch.
I feel like he is doing this because I got the job I have now. We both applied but I got it and now I'm technically his boss.
I don't want to quit as I need the money and job security especially during this pandemic, but I don't want to work here while he is treating me like this. I have started taking a record of all the things he says/does but I have no concrete proof. I also would like to know if I'm just overreacting or not.
1) Ignores me, pulls faces and moves away from me when I speak to him.
2) Calls me a b**ch and continues to even after multiple requests from me for him to stop. He tries to pass it of in a joking way.
3) Makes up lies and/or twists the truth to make me look bad. For example, he told everyone i put a special lock on the computer so that only I can use it because I don't want anyone to use it - the computer is broken and not even I can log onto it. He knows this - i've told everyone multiple times the computer is broken and i'm trying to get it fixed.
4) He has told my boss he doesn't want to work with me but has given no good excuse as to why.
I've had enough. I don't want to work with him either due to the reasons above. I feel like my boss isn't taking me seriously - though I haven't told him that my colleague calls me a b**ch.
I feel like he is doing this because I got the job I have now. We both applied but I got it and now I'm technically his boss.
I don't want to quit as I need the money and job security especially during this pandemic, but I don't want to work here while he is treating me like this. I have started taking a record of all the things he says/does but I have no concrete proof. I also would like to know if I'm just overreacting or not.