Is this weird? (relationships)

I dont see an issue with it. They've had 2 years together, supporting each other. 2 years is enought ime for them to work out if its a good idea or not (on a personal level... the "idea" in general is fine).

They both deserve some happiness from a tragic situation and if this is it then so be it.
 
I don't think she has told her family yet - I'm guessing she will be put off a little from the reaction of my family.

However, her family are not Welsh, so this could work in her favour.

Honestly, I was amazed as most of you are by the reaction. My parents are not particularly old (50's) and are pretty relaxed about relationships/sex etc so this has thrown me off slightly.

As for my sister, well .. :rolleyes:
 
wouldn't bother me in the slightest, if any thing ide be pleased for em.

as for the rest of the family maybe your folks/sister where particularly close to his ( deceased ) wife & some how think he's "dishonouring" her memory :confused:

either way ide just tell em to jog on & get on with life, if they want to be uptight about it it's there problem.
 
In tragic circumstances, special bonds form - if this has so turned into a relationship then good luck to them both :)

If other family members are reacting in an extremely unhappy manner, then they need not attend the wedding :p
 
mac1st3 said:
compared to my family that's fine :p

My bro married a girl, her parents split up, and now my mum is married to my brother's wife's dad, so I have a step father-in law, and my own mum is technically my brother's mother in law and step mother.

and their kids, are their own cousins :p Jeremy Kyle's head would explode :D
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Reminds me of this folk song ( perhaps a better rendition ? i prefer it a bit quicker...)

Give it a listen through :)
 
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Nothing wrong with it as long as they're happy. This is actually pretty common, people get close during the grieving process and often than can end in feelings/rumpy pumpy.
 
It's a strange one but just one of those things. An ex of mine, well her dad (who was a about 10 years older than her mum) used to go out with (my ex's) mums older sister for a few years. They split up and not long after her managed to get his ex's yonger sister pregnant at 17. They are stil together now about 24 years later.
 
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Nothing wrong with it, my gfs grandparents have the same thing, her gran married someone, divorced, then married his brother.
Turned out fine.

It's their choice, let them be happy.
 
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