I've broken my life.

Soundood · 8 Nov 2016 at 22:07

SexyGreyFox said:
I'm winding you up because of your stupid video links that nobody is laughing at.
Get a life.

you were winding no one up, you were serious and got it completely wrong, and now your back tracking.

Fubsy · 8 Nov 2016 at 22:09

Soundood said:
you were winding no one up, you were serious and got it completely wrong, and now your back tracking.

Got a song for that?

SexyGreyFox · 8 Nov 2016 at 22:11

Soundood said:
you were winding no one up, you were serious and got it completely wrong, and now your back tracking.

Whatever, think what you like if it makes you feel good.
Perhaps you'll now stop with your videos that nobody is laughing at.

Soundood · 8 Nov 2016 at 22:18

SexyGreyFox said:
Whatever, think what you like if it makes you feel good.
Perhaps you'll now stop with your videos that nobody is laughing at.

goodbye. and ignore.....

itchy · 8 Nov 2016 at 22:26

OP needs......

and

SexyGreyFox · 8 Nov 2016 at 22:30

Soundood said:
goodbye. and ignore.....

You've done it again, you're unbelievable.
The original writers of this song hung themselves.
You are a cruel man.

Arthur Hucksake · 9 Nov 2016 at 02:01

Steveocee said:
I've once again made a huge mess of my life and need to vent it somewhere so what better than the uninterested public of OCUK?

I'm 29, Mrs/Ex is 30 we have 3 children and 1 on the way. I have a mortgage for the house which is in my name only and I pay all of the bills (every single one). Her mother lives with us and I also divvy up the leftover cash pot as spending money for all.

3 months ago I revealed to her that I no longer felt in love with her and this led to me having to move back to my mums house into the box room.

I then went on to meet another lady whom I spent some time with but was constantly feeling like I was missing my children, I messaged said ex and went back to her and the children thinking that is what the hole in my life was.

I've now been back for 3 weeks and have had the same feelings for at least 2 weeks and have let her know that although I once again have my house back, the kids back, I just have an empty hole inside me which is not being filled with that guey romantic I'm in love feelings.

Now I'm once again being asked to leave my house, having to try and find a flat locally to my work and just genuinely feeling quite sorry for myself.

What have I done?

Time to grow up mate. That guey romance is a fallacy. It never lasts forever, not for anybody.

Do the right thing by your kids and seek the answers within. I highly doubt your wife is the main issue here.

Ultimately the world doesn't care about your feelings, you lose that right when you have kids it seems. You suck it up and try do what's best for them. When they have grown up, then you can consider the options.

It's not always easy, but it's not meant to be.