Just "AHHH", Big Rant Thread :/

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Hey guys

unusual thread from me, im never usually one to rant, more of a person that bottles it up then just goes crazy when it all gets to much

Right so to start things, the house im living in is shared accomodation right with 5 other people at uni with me. Now we all got along really well which is why we ended up living with each other, but lately everyone just seems to be getting on everyones ****, apparently ending up shunning me in the process. So last year one of the guys dropped out of uni and left our house so we advertised and soon enough someone moved in, thing is they're awful, and for the last couple of weeks have driven us up the wall.

For example, and this goes to show she has all the common sense of a potato salad. Last week she was cooking some steaks, after she was done, she washed the tin foil in the oven, left it in the sink along with the whole roasting tray full of fat and stuff which blocked the sink. Then a couple of days later she wondered in and said, "could you let me know when the kitchens dirty so i know when to clean it" WTF!.

Anyway thats the first thing driving me crazy, secondly. One guy in our house really likes this person, seems to think he can get in her pants even tho she thinks hes gay. I asked him as hes the only one that is fairly close to her, to remind her she owes us 75 pound towards bills. Now he said, "No mate its not fair, shes nice and i think we should let her off as shes a bit skint" WTF again. so i got quite annoyed and said "i dont care, we're all skint in this house so us losing out on more money isnt goin to help anyone" and then an argument followed and we both said stuff we shouldnt have, now he hasnt spoke to me in 4 days which is pathetic as i wasnt directing anything towards him.

Next thing, it was my house mates birthday saturday. On the friday before me and him went out into town got fairly drunk and had a damn good night, got home early saturday morning, i felt rough as hell but went straight to work to do a 9-7 shift. I forgot to eat before i went so felt ill all day through not eating. When i got back, they all asked if i wanted to go out for his birthday. I explained i felt real ill and tired and would make it up to him and buy him a drink on sunday (even though i saw his birthday in with him the previous night). So they all got angry with me and ignored me that night when they got back.

Next i speak to my girlfriend today and she said that one of my housemates has been insulting me behind my back because of the birthday incident and other things, which is out of order but hey what can you do?

Following on from that, tpday i find out my girlfriends currently unsure whether she wants to carry on the relationship because on friday a girl came on to me, who according to her was extremely attractive and she doesnt feel she can compete with that, so feels quite inadequate. WTF, i've explained thats why i told the girl to get on her bike, cause i wanna be with her not just anyone who comes onto me, so thats playing on my mind

almost done, tried to talk to my dad today as i see him online, but hes in a terrible mood, barely talks to me. Then finds out i brought another TFT and absoloutley flips (like a ninja, like totally killed the whole town :X). Says im useless with my money (even though i have plenty of money, for a student anyway) and that im a waster. this upset me as i hadnt spoke to him in a while so when he said that, it hurt. So he probs aint talking to me for a while...

:( sorry to rant so much but i needed to get it out, and my girlfriends not really listening at the moment so cant take it out on her :p

So feel sorry for me and give me loads of sympathy please :p lol kidding but nah, seriously, use this as a rant thread to if u like, feel free to express your rantage

if anyone read all that you deserve a medal
 
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PS. I hate the kind of stupid crappy baby politics that end up being part of daily life when having to house share with such people.
 
Noxis said:
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^^ what he said.

KaHn
 
run back to mummy and daddy that always works :D
oh and the girlfriend.. humm... do something really romantic, tell her u love her and all that stuff that always works hehe ( not that i would know ;) )
 
Wheres my medal?

You need to sit everyone down if possible, you need to let this girl know she owes you the money you can't all be out of pocket because of her.
Maybe tell this guy that likes her to tell her about his last girlfriend, get across that he isn't gay and hopefully distract her from you.
As for your girlfriend tell her again that you have no feelings for this other girl and infact tell her how you really feel (ie that shes a pain in the bum).
Dads are often in a bad mood, test the water next time he'll probably be in a good mood sometimes they just need a shout at someone.

I can't remember any of the other problems but theres my take on a few.

Edit: You could also offer to buy a round in honour of you missing your friends birthday, with all your other flatmates there. Explain you were really sorry to miss the actual day but you weren't well.
Oh and about the kitchen, tell her that instead of waiting till the kitchen is dirty ask her to just clean up after herself properly leaving it as she found it after every use.
 
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Housemates are mostly great but the "let her off she's a bit skint" just because he wants to get in her pants? Totally outrageous. (She sounds like a smacktard anyway). Get the money off her NOW, (I'm still owed about £75 from 6 years ago).

And the rest meh, chin up dude.

Or flip out and kill the whole town,
 
Steedie said:
Now he said, "No mate its not fair, shes nice and i think we should let her off as shes a bit skint"

Tell him sure thing as long as he pays it instead as well as his normal amount, point out someone has to pay it and as he is the one suggesting she be let off, he should be the one to pay it for her
 
woah that is long lol

yeah cheers guys, just really annoying happening at once lol

and i've been trying to get the money for the bills for ages now ever since she missed the first lot

Her excuse is cause shes german and has a german bank account, she cant set up direct debits very easily which is fair enough, but doesnt stop her giving the money directly to us.

Now she hardly talks to us and locks her door all the time so we cant go in and ask, and the guy who loves her so just wont have anyone of it, and goes into a major sulk if you mention the situation
 
Knock on her door when you know she's in and get the money off her now. And tell your mate to stop being such a sap.

Take your mrs out for a night, tell her the other girl means less than nothing to you (Make the gf feel special)

Ignore your dads ranting/moaning, I do. ;)
 
megzy said:
run back to mummy and daddy that always works :D
oh and the girlfriend.. humm... do something really romantic, tell her u love her and all that stuff that always works hehe ( not that i would know ;) )

I'm impressed. I didn't see one exclamation mark! :D

Steedie mate, I know what you mean. All I can say is bare with it mate, it'll blow over.
 
megzy said:
run back to mummy and daddy that always works :D
oh and the girlfriend.. humm... do something really romantic, tell her u love her and all that stuff that always works hehe ( not that i would know ;) )

omg ure 16 lolwtfomghsbcftw!!11




On topic:
The others have given you sound advice here. You need to get the money off her, otherwise it will become a routine -it happened to a friend of mine.

Do I have it right in saying the occupants of the accomodation are:
You
"her"
"him"
And two others who're relatively unknown?

If there're others in your accomodation, you need to sit down and have a chat about it. See if it's just you feeling that or if they agree. Unfortunately, without a bit of pressure, the gay chap (tee-hee) and fruitcake are just going to get worse.

-RaZ

[edit]That's possibly the best typo I've ever seen - well done :D :D :D[/edit]
 
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