Just found out today

Behemoth

Behemoth

Behemoth

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That my ex got fired from her job. Hearing this news however has given me one hell of a flash back to the traumatic times I spent with her when we were living otgether. Just when I thought I was on the mend and moving forward and had found the confidence within myself to ask another girl out for a drink this week.

I found this out from someone thats her friend aswell as mine. I have to say that I no longer trust this friend as I feel that she's more of a friend to my ex than she is me, and whatever I tell her is going straight to my ex.

Knowing what Carrie is like (my ex) she'll be so angry about losing her job that she will be after anyone who ever upset her. The fact that she put me through hell, pointed a kinfe at me, caused me to almost lose my job, lead me to a cliff edge, have me spend all night with her in casualty because she'd taken far too many pain killers and generally treat me like a mug doesn't even make any difference in her eyes. Not only that but at one point I almost lost my family because of her.

I know I shouldn't let this news bother me and I haven't seen her since October last year when I walked out on her at 1am in the morning, when she pointed a knife at me and then slashed my shirts because she was angry that I wouldn't play her mind games anymore.

I've got this horrid gut wrenching feeling that she's going to follow me around, stalk me at work, glad I've changed my car, at least she doesn't know what I drive around anymore.

Sorry for the post guys I just wanted to get this out my system. Am actually feeling quite scared.
 
Teledude - Yup thats the planm next time Clare phones I'll tell her it's best if she leaves me alone in future.

I went to college with her, we were fridns for years and then got together last summer, and thats when I found out what she was really like. at first I could deal with it, but each time it got blown to ther next level every time there was a problem.

I did a quick search on a forum she posts at to see she has listed her employers addresses so all her pals can send them nasties in the post.
 
Thats just it, you never know with her. She is about as stable as the first release of Windows 95. The good thing is though we don't live in the same towns, she's a good 20 - 25 miles away from me.
 
Teledude said:
Im down in Cornwall over Easter and love a good argument ;) :D
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You'll need a really good body guard mate. She may only be 5ft tall, but she's lethal.

The night I left her to slit her wrists, to try and get me to stay she said, she threw plates and cups down at me in my car. She missed thankfully.
 
Whats the keyboard warrior comment ??

No if I hit her she;d accuseme of being a woman beater, she did that to herlast fella and he hadn't touched her.
 
Thankfully there's only one tie to cut. She did try getting one ofmy best friends to turn against me, but he told her where to go, she hasn't bothered him since.
 
lordrobs said:
Sounds like you know what you need to do then.

Best of luck with it fella.
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Thanks matey :) Feeling a little bit better about it now. We shall see what happens over the next few days.
 
pyro said:
Just don't lose your cool dude, if she starts being a psycho female dog take it easy and avoid her.
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Thats the plan. She may never pop up, in which case, great if she does, I'll jump in my car and drive so fast that she'll never see me for dust.
 
I was asked a few days ago by a work colleague if there was any chance we'd get back together, the answer was something along the lines of it being a cold day in hell before that ever happens.

As I said I'm feeling a lot better about it now, she probably never will show up here or at work becuase she knows my family, and espcially my sister would give her some serious beeatings. And work would just call the police.
 
If I saw her on the same side of the road as me, I'd cross the road to get away from her.

Yeah I guess I'm not 100% over her yet, I know it takes time.
 
WantoN said:
Fair play. To be honest I thought you might take offense :) There's absolutely nothing wrong with not quite being over her, and I think you know this. Give it a little time. News about her has probably brought back echoes of what you felt for her. Even if she was a pscyho-cow-mutilator-from-hell, doesn't mean you didn't love her eh ;)

Women. Can't live with 'em. Can't Kill 'em.

Ant :cool:
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Whats to get offended about when it's the truth ?? :)

I know that at the end of the day if she does try to make contyact I know what to do. Which is not to losemy temper but to just ognore her, and if ned be use one of the options you guys mentioned. Well the legal and serious ones.
 
Yup ignoring goes a long way as I found out when i walked out on her. Should have ignored her more often, still live and learn I guess.
 
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