Last thing that angered you?
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I just googled "oneitis"....You are so right
....I might pop to whsmiths and see if i can find this book tonight...ty
I know exactly what you are going through, having been in a similar situation myself, although with pills. By doing coke, I imagine you mean casually rather than consistent use.
And the end of the day, what she does is her choice, but there isn't anything wrong with voicing your concerns. However, you can't go in guns blazing because a) you will look overprotective and b) you will possibly look stupidly uncool. It will be very hypocritical of you to suggest that drug use is somehow immoral or bad if you get drunk fairly frequently because at the end of the day, both are a form of escapism and it's pretty debatable if alcohol makes you any less of a culprit.
My phobia of drug use has declined, but I don't envy your situation.
I bought the book..."the game" you ^ recommended... I really hope it helps as every night i go to bed knowing tomorrow will bring the same heartache/anger/sadness
Does it make me a horrible person wanting to txt her so bad to get all my anger out and give her aload of abuse?...it wont help or change anything tho will it...and tomorrow night, i have to deal with knowing shes out with another guy.
as every night i go to bed knowing tomorrow will bring the same heartache/anger/sadness Does it make me a horrible person wanting to txt her so bad to get all my anger out and give her aload of abuse?...it wont help or change anything tho will it
...and tomorrow night, i have to deal with knowing shes out with another guy. 
I got ID'd when trying to buy Pro Plus last week, I'm 23. The worst thing is when you get ID'd by someone who's obviously younger than you are. I had a boy who looked to be about 14 years old ID me the last time I went to buy some beer.
casucally mention that you hate the fact she's living with a bunch of cokeheads, laugh at the fact that the one who was so against it is now doing it, and comment on how proud you are she's not fallen into that stupidity and you're glad you can trust her
that way, if she's been thinking about it, it'll put her off, and if she has been doing it, she'll feel guilty about it and hopefully stop
Well, thanks for the advice people. I didn't go in guns blazing, casually brought it up when she phoned me after getting in from her night out. The way I looked at it was she probably wouldn't have told me anyone was doing it if she'd done it herself.
I'm pretty sure the others in the house are just in a start of uni phase like some of my housemates were when I started.
I said to her "I know you'd never try it would you." And what she said has me certain she hasn't, nor has any intentions of trying it. She doesn't think it's worth risking, she says got her degree and career to think about without trying that stuff. I know she's dabbled with some minor things in her younger years but haven't most people? Since she's been with me she's never done anything and I think she's past it all now. She's a year older than everyone there, and has the maturity of someone older thankfully!
good to hear buddysounds like you've found one of the sensible ones you can talk to
Yeah I'm pretty lucky I think, half the problems we have are resolved by her and her speaking sense, she resolves things properly and moves on without constantly reminding you of your mistakes. Seriously empathetic and understanding.. It's a first proper relationship for the both of us, and so long as we both keep our heads screwed on, it should last..
*touch wood*
Yeah I'm pretty lucky I think, half the problems we have are resolved by her and her speaking sense, she resolves things properly and moves on without constantly reminding you of your mistakes. Seriously empathetic and understanding.. It's a first proper relationship for the both of us, and so long as we both keep our heads screwed on, it should last..
*touch wood*
stabs you and steals your girlfriend
well good luck to the both of you