Im in a similar position to you here.
I've always been a chubber, a couple of years ago I was 17.5 stone, this year I clocked in at 14 stone with hardly any muscle.
As you said you can cut and look like you have not got much. However, if you were to bulk and do it sensibly and not eat copious amounts of food but more than a lean bulk requires then you could gain a fair amount of muscle (which has happened in my case). Yes you'll get a few extra lbs of fat in there, I've gathered some, but in the long run you ARE going to cut up so why not bulk now but be sensible and cut after a 4 - 6 month bulk?
Well near enough. It comes out as 2790, when I am taking in about 2900 on workout days and 2600 on off days.
So you're both doing pretty much the same thing - just eating slightly over 15 x lb bodyweight? And you're both seeing good gains?