I drove manual work vans for 35 yrs (even double de clutching)but when buying my own car I went auto if possible - Wife passed in manual and I have to say she was crap - In no way could she co-ordinate a hill start - she was never 100% happy driving - I said drive mine but she wouldn't - When I got rid of my auto car as we didn't need it and it did 22mpg I said our joint car will be auto and she was horrified - after a few days driving it she was hooked - no way in this world will she drive a manual now.
I did get her to put her left leg under her right one and press it into the seat -that kept it out of the way so she didn't go for the clutch.
I can't belive how people have dug so deep to persuade her to take a manual test. - To be honest though it is an advantage if "needed".
Auto is great if you’re looking for something like a 5 series. Not so much for the typical first car from the last 10 year has very much been built to a budget.