Life.

Neoni · 29 Dec 2006 at 03:43

Well lets get the blades sort myself out. no im not ******* emo.

and im not depressed.

right sorted!

Im currently at university (Creative Music Technology) really getting into the music at the moment, and im getting into my studies, being more creative than i have been in a while.. and life in general is going well, im going out clubbin and pubs and bars with friends, going out on night time with a few mates having generally a good time.

now then problem!

i have been single for a pretty long time, and to be honest its been middle of last year since ive been in a solid relationship, there is girls involved in my life but i dont know what i want from them, friendship, or more! i just think its probably not my time and i should keep plodding along... as im doing. but i feel like im goin' around and around and around. like im going nowhere, but i know im not.

Whats peoples opinions?

Neoni · 29 Dec 2006 at 04:08

Al Vallario said:
You should really stop rambling on Internet message boards at 3am...

*av

Quite Possibly.

Neoni · 29 Dec 2006 at 04:22

DAvE18 said:
because sometimes you like a girl as friend so much that there like a sister and then it just gets wrong to think of it any other way

i dont want to get more than a friend, and then lose them? and have nothing to do with them at all.

Neoni · 29 Dec 2006 at 04:31

Locrian said:
When you say 'there are girls' do you mean 'there are girls that i sometimes hit up the back passage' or 'there are girls i sorta like but they dont even know my name'?

If your just playing the field I think thats ok, but if your not getting anywhere, maybe you should reassess.

there girls i hang around with, ones that im not sure if they want to go further, some i do.. theres a certain two i know and we are very friendly friendly. nothing sexual involved!

Neoni · 29 Dec 2006 at 04:43

Zefan said:
Why not :\

I'm a firm believer that almost every single "Guy friend" a girl has is definitely after more and would certainly not say no to it, therefore I'm presuming that you want to hit it off with these girls. Just pick your favourite/mostlikeytoscorewith/a balance of both and concentrate on it.

i tryed it with one, it got some where to a certain point, then slipped away.

havent seen her in a while, me and her shared a few txts today and have decided to meet again, doubt it will be the same.

Neoni · 29 Dec 2006 at 04:52

Zefan said:
Make it the same.

You can do anything if you try

I even succeeded in giving a girl one for the road when she knew what I was doing, that's when I realised I have extreme powers of seduction. Go for it!

I look forward to the "Nailed it!" thread

that time hopefully will come until then! Bedtime. Oooooh right!

Night Ocuk, Its been fun!

Neoni · 29 Dec 2006 at 17:36

Thanks for the advice all we'll see maybe its just not the right time

Neoni · 29 Dec 2006 at 17:40

Zefan said:
Not at all, if so then nearly every single guy has to "Sort his life out".

I don't see what needs "Sorting out" exactly... :\

lol i have a load of girl friends some extremely stunning ones ! but i dont want them anything more than just a friend, as i have a great friend relationship with them, we can talk about everything and go and have a drink without taking it further :rolleyes:

plus if shes sending back vibes (the girl im interested in) then does she need to sort her life out? if she cant just be a friend with me?

Neoni · 29 Dec 2006 at 17:42

Jonny L said:
TBH get lade and deal with the consequences afterwards, bit of casual sex never hurt anyone.

it does if your tail falls off.

Neoni · 29 Dec 2006 at 17:44

Nix said:
Neon mate, don't wanna seem harsh -- but get it into perspective. A year or so since your last relationship? Oh no, the tragedy!

erm i meant 6 Months ago! and only reason i havent pushed again is because the last one hurt me a lot. and it shouldnt have, but it really did.

Neoni · 29 Dec 2006 at 17:49

Jonny L said:
What you need is a large number of beers and an even larger number of naked women.

sounds good, party at yours?

Neoni · 29 Dec 2006 at 18:10

Amp34 said:
Was that aimed at me?

If so maybe people misunderstood what I meant. What I am saying is if you see every female as something to use for pleasure (which zefans posts seem to point to) then you need to think your relationship ideas with females through. There is nothing wrong with being friends then falling for each other but not being able to be friends with any girl without wanting to **** them is a little wierd.

oh sorry i mis understood you, i see your point, but there is girls i have as friends and girls that could be well more than friends

Neoni · 30 Dec 2006 at 14:08

Dude its not a rebound, you got the complete wrong idea, i dont need, i just want a female friend, whos a bit closer than a friend? is it to much to ask, im sick of being around mates who are all partner'd up, you make it sound like im just after physical contact.

Neoni · 30 Dec 2006 at 14:14

Nix said:
The rebound point was more directed towards Zefan

ah i see. i just want a female buddy, a bit closer than a friend, somebody i can just spend nights with, and go out together etc, instead of being with mates all the time, yes i suppose a gf,