Been reading the rest of this thread since I last posted. But the gif above just made me crack up laughing (or lol if you will

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After all this is said and done I am currently planning to get a loan in september to buy a brand spanking new car, however my situation is vastly different. As well I get the loan intrest free (yes really) and the car duty free. However only reason I am getting this as it is a "perk" from my job. I am still wacking 20% towards the loan mind due.
But I mean as people have mentioned math does not lie, and when 50% of your wages a month goes into paying debts generally in my opinion that is not a good sign.
However these statements from Shep:
I don't lie awake at night worrying and i very rarely go out.
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I'm talking out town drinking and partying. I go out for meals and to the cinema with the mrs and mates but thats just normal everyday life.
I mean talk about contradicting yourself. Surely you have to "go out" to go to the cinema or have a meal.
Have you ever considered that maybe going to the cinema or going out for a meal with the mrs and/or mates is considered a luxury. You need to get into your head that while to you that might seem "normal everyday life" to some that is a treat. You know what happens when you pig out on treats don't you ?
Going to the cinema is freaking expensive, in MK your looking at £8.50 a ticket. Thats not for flashy 3D. Plus if you buy any food and drink, so lets say that is 5quid (and thats cheap its prob more than that) So you have spent 13.50 so far. Petrol getting to and from. Most likely looking at about 3-5 quids worth. £18.50. Lets say you drop friends off home and/or the "mrs" so lets round that to 8quid. £21.50.
So £21.50 for a "normal everyday life" cinema trip.... Even if you do that once a week for 4 weeks thats £86 in total.
Now in all that I havnt even thought about meals out as well. But I bet you its a lot more expensive that 21.50.
See how a "normal everyday life" thing just went from being a small thing to put in the back of your mind to HOLY CRAP £86 a month.
THAT MY FRIEND IS CALLED THE ******* SNOWBALL EFFECT !
Which is exactly what is happening for you and your finances.