Ok, I tried to post a paragraph of sensible advice on the first page, which the OP has duly ridiculed the sentiments of with his later posts.
Based on the OP's comments about what would happen if he was made redundant, and relying on his family to bail him out, to me the obvious conclusion is simply that the OP has absolutely no grasp of the value of money, because there is no real threat of being without it in his eyes. He needs to lose it all without an easy route out to realise this.
In OP's position the only investment I'd be making was a decent road bike so I could sell my car, and a Pay As You Go phone so I could ditch the contract. Grow up, take some responsibility, stop hanging off your family's safety net.