It takes about 10 minutes to install the above apps and set everything up, not exactly much faff required
Don't know what the iphone way is like but I can say that all the above apps I linked work wonderfully (although you need root for some features in hover controls) and honestly can't think of a better way for them to work
Don't think google now allows you to change tracks, however, you can install the hover controls to allow motion based gestures to change tracks etc. so in other words you just wave your hand in front of the device (no need to look exactly at it and screen doesn't even need to be on)