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Reading this thread really got to me :( So sorry for your loss, hope you and your family are ok and just remember your Dads out of pain now, which is what matters.
 
I got to admit i shed a tear reading this as i lost my uncle in September this year who was like a father to me and he went through similar stages to your father it was hard to cope with but i am glad i was there to see him before he passed away.(he got to the stage where he couldn't speak too it was very hard seeing him like that...he had cancer which spread throughout his organs into his spine gradually then to his brain)

He probably was very happy to have you and the family there seeing him like people have said its good you got that chance which you also made the most of.Hopefully things will improve for you and your family from now but he may be gone at least your memories will always remain of a good father that you had that can never be taken.

I hope he's at peace now and in a place filled with happiness.
 
I'm really shocked that despite being caught early that they didn't give next to no treatment for months. If i was in his posstition i would have begged for an op stright away
 
Am so sorry to hear this secretspy but at least he's not suffering any more.
My thoughts are with you & your family.
 
secretspy said:
Was babysitting for my sister last night and had to stay over. Got the call just after they returned to say that my dad had passed away :'(

Feels.....strange. feeling rather numb. He had been in hospital nearly two months so it isn't such a shock not seeing him here but its the thought that I'm never going to see my dad again.

Love you so much dad. I'm sad to see you leave us but I'm glad you are no longer in pain RIP
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It sounds cliché but, time is a great healer, you will have a rough time for a while. Your mum will need you more than ever right now.
 
My dad had a heart attack and passed away a few years ago, when I was in year 9. I kind of count my self lucky that I didn't have to watch him suffer, or see him as less than the person he was for too long. No advice from me, but I appriciate you sharing your story and thought I'd share some of mine. All the best for the future.
 
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