Lost my father

:(. RIP, sorry to read this dude. It must be truly terrible to feel how you do right now. Try and stay strong for your bro and mom.
 
Very sorry for your loss.

I live 4,000 miles away from my father. He has a heart condition, he's in his 70's. But he won't stop and never will. I'm dreading the day I get that phone call.

"Everyone should take the time to tell loved ones what they thing and feel of them because you never know when this kind of thing may happen"
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Thank you. I'm gonna call him as soon as I can.

Best wishes.
 
My thoughts are with you.

I lost my mum last March and I posted on here also, she was only 53 years old. There is no way, or nothing anyone can do to make u feel any better.

However, what I will say to you is - it will get easier, and god forbid do not start to relax the amount you visit him (wherever that is - in my mums case the cemetary) and good luck in the enar future,
 
Sorry for your loss.

I always say that such a sudden passing is a blessing for them, better than a drawn out illness. However, sudden passings are so much harder for those left behind, you havent got the chance to come to terms with it and accept it like you have with an illness.

My g/fs nan passed from a blood clot on the brain. She was taken into hospital and they diagnosed it, gave her some blood thinning drugs and made her stay in for a couple of days. The day she was supposed to come out she was chatting to the others in the ward and collapsed. Another clot, the hospital gave her more of the drugs but she passed into a coma. The hospital ran out of the drugs and she passed away about 5 mins before we got there.

I actually envy those of you with a dad worth missing if he passed.
 
A similar thing happened to the Director of a glazing company next to where I work. He reached his 60th, contrcted a really severe chest infection, and before anyone new what was happening, he'd gone.

Nobody on the factory estate could believe it had happened. I feel for you and your family stoofa :(
 
stoofa, I can tell how you feel,
my father died 13 years ago, he was only 35 years old :\
all the best to you and to your family, and things will get better i am sure, first months weren't easy for me, but as time goes by things gets better.
 
My thoughts are with you and yours...

I've always been worried about losing one of my parents, since I noticed that all my mates have parents a lot younger... I can't begin to imagine how you must feel, but be there for your family, and look after each other through this difficult time.

RIP
 
Lost my dad when he was 42 so I know what you're going through. Definitely agree that you should make the most of the time you get and let people know how you feel.

The only consolation I can offer is that the pain will subside with time :(

Chin up, mate. Best wishes to you and your family.
 
stoofa said:
Everyone should take the time to tell loved ones what they thing and feel of them because you never know when this kind of thing may happen.
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Never a more true word spoken.

Sorry for you all, my thoughts are with you.

RIP.
 
I'm sorry to hear that, I cant imagine what it must feel like.

My thoughts are with you and your family.
 
I honestly don't know what i'd do if my dad died... i'd be a completele mess. Since my mum and dad divorced and I never see my mum any more, we've been more like brothers than father and son, and despite all my moaning at him I love him more than anything within this world, even if I don't always show it.

You have my sincere condolences. :(
 
Best wishes to you and your loved ones at this difficult time; It will get easier, especially if you concentrate on helping your Mother and Brother.

Good luck and kind regards.
 
Similar thing happened to my old man.

He was fine one minute then got a bit groggy, 1h later at 1am in the morning i had had enough and called an ambulance, 2h later he had gone.

I never said the things i wanted to say some of my last words were arguing with him that we need to go to hospital now, he was very stubborn about it.

Help your mum, mine was the same as yours. She dosn't drive and had no confidence, my dad did nealry everything for her.

good luck mate, one thing i found just cry when u need to really just get it out.
 
Thats awful. Puts things into perspective and makes you think, especially when it can all change so quickly.

Really feel for you, can't even beging to imagine how you must be feeling.
 
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