Lost my mum

I can't be the only one who has made several attempts to say something useful here, and struggled; you're going through something most of us dread. So just take care of yourself and try to remember that nothing will ever make your mother suffer again; she's free of pain, and at peace.

Hopefully one day you'll be free of pain too and able to remember better times with a smile rather than despair. You know that's what your Mum would want... eventually. Grief has to come first though. It's the only way we have of purging the pain and frustration of letting a loved one go.

RIP Business Man's Mum. We may never have known you, but we know you were loved. What else could any of us ask for, than to be loved?
 
I am so sorry for your loss.

I lost a friend earlier this year under similar circumstances. Its a horrible thing and I am still to this day trying to "get over it". A term I am not a fan of.

Cancer is a horrible horrible thing.
 
My deepest condolences for your loss, there's nothing I can add to what's already been said

Two years ago I lost my father to a brain tumour, he died at the local hospice.. I was just about to go outside for a ciggy and he stopped breathing.. I'll remember that last breath for the rest of my life.. As far as I'm concerned cancer is nothing but evil, my dad was a intelligent, very dignified man & it took all of that away from him

I know it's hard but try and be positive!
 
Im sorry for your loss, Don't be upset about her passing.

Remember the times you had with her and remember that she will want you to continue with your life as best you can.

Chin up, Its what your mum would want :D
 
Just hope you have friends and family to get you through the next few days after numbness comes grief don't let anyone tell you how long it should last and let it come.

The pain does subside been nearly 3 years since my mum passed and i still miss her every day.

Sorry for your loss.
 
sorry for your loss.
my mum has had to bury her brother and sister this year to cancer.

your mum wouldn't want you to be unhappy.
try to remember her with good times.
time is the healer.
 
Ayahuasca said:
You can have all the friends, girlfriends and wives in the world but none will love you unconditionally like a mother does.
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That made me well up.

I'm so sorry for your loss, I can't even begin to fathom this possibility. It's unlikely my words will have any impact upon you, but chin up and power through, as I'm pretty sure this is what your mum would want.
 
Sorry for your loss, must be awful, I know a lot of people say this but it is a certain fact that your mum would want you be happy, just imagine what she would tell you, you'll be fine, you'll continue to carry her with you, shell still have a positive impact on your life.
 
really sorry for your loss fella, lost my mum to cancer 3 years ago, nothing could prepare me for watching her go either, stay strong, my thoughts are with you and your family.
 
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