Love

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:34

I have been with my wife for 16 years. Yet we have only been married for 18 months. Yes, we have both been there before. Both had messy divorces and the usuall grime that goes with it.
I lover her more and more every day. We enjoy being with each other and can share anything. I would not swap her for anything. I certainly would not contemplate cheating, due to loving her so much
This is not a softy post, but why do you love your partner? There must be something that makes you say.... I really do love my partner beacuse...........................................

I love my wife as she is always there to listen, help and care when I need it most.
Do you love your partner/wife/lover and why

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:39

Andelusion said:
Awww

Cannot fault that one

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:39

ScarySquirrel said:
I love my hand because it never cheats on me, argues with me, and it does what I want it to. I would never cheat on it, and If i was with anyone, I would make sure it was invloved too.

ps. yes i am single

ROFL
wait till you meet the "ONE"

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:40

INFECTION said:
i have been with my gf 3 years now and i love her sooo much all my other gfs i have usualy cheated on or been cheated on but we seem to have a conection dont know what exactly but am really in love with her

Thats what i mean. You cannot describe the way you feel about them

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:42

KnightStalker said:
ive known my girl for 4 years now, in the 4 years weve split and gone our own ways, but we have always come back to each other, i cant put my finger on it but theres something about her that i cant let go, and she feels the same. now were so much in love that we cant stand being away from each other, its very sureal in the fact we both think the same thing and say it together

But for me, i love my girl, for the fact : shes my best friend, i love her little quirks - such as the smile first thing in a morning - the angry face, which makes us both laugh,
the fact that when i hold her, i feel like im on top of the world, and lastly, because she is the best thing that has ever happened to me ever.

yer im a big softy, just you wait till she sees this post, she wont let it rest for ages.

We are all big "softies" if we admit it. You gotta agree... there is something that ticks that we cannot explain. We all have someone for us... we just gotta meet them

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:43

Jenjey said:
This is so cheesy its untrue. I feel quite sick reading some of these posts.

Nice though.... :/

Come on. You gotta admit there was someone in your life. maybe not the"one" as i put it, but someone who you loved being around

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:44

Otacon said:

This need no words

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:45

Blackstar said:
I love my boyfriend because even though we haven't been together for very long it feels like he knows me better than anyone, he is there for me however i'm feeling. He supports me with decisions, advices me, talks to mead helps me makes my life better. I couldn't ask for anyone better, we have our problems and with me being young it may well collapse round my ankles but i'm happy.

A true partner, possible futre marrige. Undersatnding, and supporting your partners decisions is fundamental in making it long term.
Good luck to you both

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:47

Raymond Lin said:
Cynic mode on.

Have you ever wonder that a lot of these people met "the one" from the same town, that you've met them when you are young, Surely statisticly chances are that you will never meet "the one", there are only most compatible.

You never know when you will meet the one. it just happens.... Am I right??

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:51

KnightStalker said:
Yes sir it does, well from my piont of view it does.

I am glad, We all have the future in our hands when we meet the person that we like/love/adore... you know what I mean

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:52

Roberta said:
So many reasons!

He's kind, loving and very funny. He's not afraid to show his feelings and like me will always apologise if he feels he's done something to apologise for. I really admire that. We're very similar in our outlook. I always say he's the male version of me.

We've had a tough year together what with one thing and another but just get stronger all the time. We've never argued and just discuss things then put them behind us.

He's my rock and he tells me the same. Being with him is like coming home.

And he's got a lovely bottom!

Without sounding cheesy. I have been there and it give me a lump in my throat to read someone else has been there. It does get better, stick with it

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:54

INFECTION said:
i never had much luck with girls till i met my current gf and where both really happy so yes its true

I wish you both good luck. Also, it takes a little work from both people to make it work

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:54

ScarySquirrel said:
even mine?

Nope, that is scary

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:55

Nix said:
There are 6 billion plus people on this planet, about half (3 billion) give or take are on either sex.

The odd's of you finding the ONE in 3 billion people is, well 1 in 3 billion. a lot of people also put this down to fate. Meeting the one in my mind feels incredibley unlikely. Some people may have, but in large, it simply is people who are compatable together.

Yes, but you know when you meet the one don't you?

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:56

Blackstar said:
Very important in a relationship that my boyfriend also has a lovely bum

It helps

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:58

Roberta said:
Definitely! The problems haven't been with our relationship but outside forces, but it's made us stronger so we don't really care!

I had the usual in-law issues as everyone. But it's all good now

spike66 · 5 Apr 2006 at 23:59

KnightStalker said:
Its always nice to hear different peoples views on their relationships, and to hear they feel the same way to their partners as i do to mine, really puts things into prespective for me, im just lucky to have her

I am really lucky to have mine too. Although, i don't always show her. But i will. I have recently lost a friend at the age of 30, and it makes you stop and think

spike66 · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:02

Doohickey said:
I agree. Lucky I have some ice cream in the freezer, mmm

Yup, Ice cream helps. I do not want people to get down over this. It was a way of expressing my feeling. It may not be the "ONE", but could be, as we have seen, a pet that makes us happy

spike66 · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:03

Roberta said:
This was an evil ex issue which is still raging! But that's enough of that!

Let it go. he may be nasty or evil, but he does not have you and that is his loss.
Look on the bright side (don't beat me over it) you are free to fing Mr Right

spike66 · 6 Apr 2006 at 00:05

KnightStalker said:
sorry to hear about the loss, but thats a different topic, but yes i know what you mean about that, its just the cards that life deals you, you either have a good hand, or a bad hand or in most cases, an undecided hand, but also its what you make of those hands that counts.

We ALL have to make the effort. How many of you can say that today you made extra effort to your partner. I did. My wife is a teacher and when she came home, tea was ready with a glasss of wine. So yes, i did make the effort as i do not know what tomorrow will bring