Made a terrible error in the work place, please read entire thread I need advice!

Don't **** where you eat. Also Office Communicator 2007? Probably worth getting fired it would be better than using that pile of junk.

In all seriousness you've done nothing warranting getting fired.
 
ivrytwr3 said:
jesus, 23 years old and you talk/type like an 8 year old.

"we was trying to be secrtive"

"we was getting togeather at lunch"

"it had to go off to the menders to get fixed" - you mean a garage? MEDNDERS?!

And btw 'hickeys'???????? Did you go behind the bike shed too?

PS Your own dad made you redundant?!

and breathe..............
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Typing fast, but thanks for pointing out all my mistakes. What does it matter anyway? You clearly understood what I wrote : / And no, my dad got me the job, it was the main gaffer who made redundant, as well as 50% of the entire work force.
 
randal24 said:
OK, do you think you've broken any work place rules?

i.e sex in the work place, or something similar that could lead to dismissal.

Anything you've done that could affect your work, your output (not that kind of output), or effectiveness in your job?

If yes, and they can prove it then you might be in for a verbal warning if this is your first I guess.

Depends on what if anything, and how severe and the impact.
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We haven't had sex, just kissing and cuddling really. Not done anything that effects my work aside from the off time that we have been 15 minutes late off our lunchbreak, which has only happened a couple of times.
 
Skillmister said:
Indeed.

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I wish I was trolling you right now, so does she. Its not me im worried about to be honest (I'd be lying if I was a little though) Its mainly her, she doesn't deserve to lose her job over this silly mistake because of how much we like each other.
 
saintdefender said:
Typing fast, but thanks for pointing out all my mistakes. What does it matter anyway? You clearly understood what I wrote : / And no, my dad got me the job, it was the main gaffer who made redundant, as well as 50% of the entire work force.
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Helping uncle Jack, off a horse.

Helping uncle jack off a horse.

That's why it is important what you write.
 
saintdefender said:
We haven't had sex, just kissing and cuddling really. Not done anything that effects my work aside from the off time that we have been 15 minutes late off our lunchbreak, which has only happened a couple of times.
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Then if you're totally confident of this, and you can prove it with her to your management then I doubt you have anything to worry about. People hook up at work all the time, and provided it doesn't impact your job then I doubt your manager will have anything bad to say about it.

Depending on how good a keel you're on with your boss, you could pull her to one side for an informal chat to let her know this is going on. She'd appreciate the honesty, and she would also take that opportunity to voice any concerns she may have or may have seen to date.

Being a manager of people, I would appreciate it more if one of my team came to me first before I found out via other means. Be that the rumour mill, or the impact the relationship has on the role.
 
The only thing I see wrong, is going to the toilet together?

Just confess up, say there is a relationship forming. Is it a problem?
 
Going off to the toilets to hold hands it a really strange thing to do now I think about this. Going to the toilets for sex is borderline, but to cuddle and hold hands?
 
JonJ678 said:
Going off to the toilets to hold hands it a really strange thing to do now I think about this. Going to the toilets for sex is borderline, but to cuddle and hold hands?
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There was just no where else to go that was out of sight. We could have gone outside in pubic certainly, but we can't stop kissing and we wanted a bit of privacy. This can't be too hard to understand surely?
 
Skunkworks said:
Worst "I'm getting laid" thread ever.
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This!

orderoftheflame said:
Either start an adult relationship and be professional while at work or call it off?
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And this!

Ultimately just say to your boss you are both in a relationship and thats that, no one can sack you for being in a relationship.

I would recomend staying off office communication tech to talk sexy times though, most companies have clauses in contracts or at least policy statements about misuse of company comms. Oh and don't give hickies to each other, I mean really? Isn't that for school kids or those with the mental age of schoolchildren? (our chav community)
 
saintdefender said:
There was just no where else to go that was out of sight. We could have gone outside in pubic certainly, but we can't stop kissing and we wanted a bit of privacy. This can't be too hard to understand surely?
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Pretty difficult to understand to be honest, yeah. Self control? Lack of desire to spend great lengths of time in a toilet? Hygiene?
 
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