Deleted member 66701
Deleted member 66701
It's starting to come off a bit "rapey" to me now.![]()
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Freemasonry is probably not for you then. Regardless, I hope you gain everything you seek in life and wish you well.
It's starting to come off a bit "rapey" to me now.![]()
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I don't think they are particularly secret anymore, I think they've come a long way and diversified to try and remove the old ideas people had about them. However, I understand that they held considerable influence back in the 50/60s which is slightly... dubious perhaps?
There's nothing particularly wrong with helping a mate up and whatever but I think where my Father was coming from, he thought it was wrong that there are people in the World who benefited that weren't the best. He was a wishy washy Liberal back in the day which no doubt shaped his opinions a lot with the Masons. Nowadays, he sees them much more of an old boys club that just get together every now and then as friends do. But, are also active in charity work.
Finally, I was a bit wrong to say that there was a link as from speaking to people I've learnt that it was entirely appropriate for my Grandfather to achieve the rank that he did on merit alone.
Freemasonry... isn't it that famous social gay club?
Finally, I was a bit wrong to say that there was a link as from speaking to people I've learnt that it was entirely appropriate for my Grandfather to achieve the rank that he did on merit alone.
And here is another idiot thats probably not an ideal candidate.
The fact of the matter is that Freemasons generally to excel in life and do well in the chosen career but 99% of the time it's due to the skills and confidence they have gained as a result of being a Freemason, rather than any dodgy backhanders or legups they've got along the way.
Just like going to University prepares you for the world, Freemasonry prepares you to make the most of your life - which is why I find it unfortunate that the majority of initiates are near the end of thier working life, when they would derive the most usefullness from it if they had joined later.
As DiamondMark says - it can simply be a night out to meet with friends, have a good meal and a good drink (jeez can Freemasons drink!) and if that's all you want from it then fine - "it is what it is".
Same as everything with life, you get out what you put in - no-one is going to do things for you.

And here is another idiot thats probably not an ideal candidate.

That my man is a superb post and i think probably our time to bow out![]()

I'm honestly not understanding the benefits. It may well be it's just because I'm not involved in it so I don't understand.
But all the things people have mentioned are skills etc that I've learnt just growing up. I suppose it might help an unconfident person.
I would suggest that the best advantage that being a mason gives you is the social contact network.
[J.D.C];18210897 said:Think my girlfriend's mum's boyfriend was as well but left because he thought they were all hypocrites shagging each others wives.

Are you sure that was a Masonic Lodge or a swingers club he went to?![]()
