Mates sister off limits?

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Was on my mates bebo page, just leaving the usual banter message. Noticed his sister had left a comment. Haven't seen her since high school like 7 years ago.

Left her a message asking how she was doing etc. Ended up speaking over msn. Have done so for the last 4 nights and actually seem to have quite a lot of the same interests and are getting a long well. I have really enjoyed speaking with her.

Was thinking of asking her out for a drink some time but I am completely crazy in thinking my mate would be ok with this?

I don't think he is that close with his sister as I cannot think of one time I have seen her when ive been on a night out with my mate or at his flat for drinks etc.
 
Everyone is more confident over text or hiding behind a computer so I'd be a bit wary.

I'm currently going out with one of my mates sisters... 2 years so far and everything is great.

Probably best to check with your mate first though...
 
Be VERY careful. You could loose a mate over it, but then if you don't meet her for a drink you will never know.

How much younger is she than you? I would meet her for a drink and see how it goes. If it hits off big time, and you end up bedding her in your mates bed, it is best to tell him ASAP.

Personally, i would probably stay away from my mates sisters if i could, it could cause a rift between you as friends.
 
Your mate probably wouldn't be happy, but screw him - he'd do the same to you given the opportunity.
 
Speak to your mate first.

Some of my friends I wouldn't mind getting with my sister, I know they are good guys, others I wouldn't let near.
 
As long as your mate's ok with it AND (more importantly) they don't look too alike especially facially - you don't want to be embroiled in the throes of passion & look up at her face & see your mate's face :eek: :D
 
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I take it by Sister that you don't mean Mother or Brother. If that's the case then I can't see why there should be a problem. :D
 
I use to pork my best mates sister for a while, nothing wrong with it. Just don't "disrespect her" (his words not mine) That was a few years ago and we have since split up but still get on well. Hes still my best mate.
 
I'm going out with my mate's sister (I've lived with both her brothers in the past, living just with her now)

I asked them first mind..

As long as you not going to 1-night stand her, or mess her about, they should be cool with it :)

Been 4 years now, it's going great
 
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