Meh, How to deal with this?

You need to say one simple phrase:

"Go **** yourself. You can walk from now on, you ungrateful little ****."

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Hold on, hold on. We have forgotten one thing...





are you bigger than you brother? If so, do what you want. If not, then hire a bodyguard as your a wimp for having a brother that talks back at you.
 
So he has an accident in your car, you pay out of your own pocket to get it fixed and he's moaning about how it was your fault?

Next time he starts, just tell him that thanks to his actions, some yobs trashed your Saxo... YOUR car, not his.
 
Berger said:
Pay me to come round and go internet keyboard warrior on his ass.

That'll teach him. :)
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I'd take this offer very seriously Phil - Berger is a Blue-ish-red belt in the art of home computer fighting skills

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Fishman said:
Did I miss something ? why cant your brother driver for 2 years. The other thread doesnt mention a ban ?
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ah i c

he got a ban for hitting a pedestrian

his own stupid fault :rolleyes:

who would he have blaimed if he was on his way to work ? he needs telling that he can lump it and walk if he doesnt like it Its not your fault he hit a pedestrian at all.

pillock.
 
While the brother is acting like a bit of a llama from reading the original thread I am thinking the penalty is a bit harsh.

When it is foggy sure people drive slower (as they should) they turn on thier fog lights and you would expect anything on the roads to have lights on (as per the law)

Hitting a drunk pedestrian in the middle of the road (that was probably wearing dark clothing and that moved into the path of the swerving car) at night is something that could really happen to any of us even without the fog.

Who is to say they will be on a 30 limit road.

Round here on the A414 we get these idiots on donkey(or something) driven carts "driving" on the dual carriage way at night with no lights on their back. Your probably closing on them at 60+ mph and the road is not lit. It is only so long before one of these idiots gets hammered from behind. Who would be at fault then ? This is a pretty similar situation
 
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One of my best mates hit a guy on the A23 ages ago.

The guy was wasted at the time, and could've used a very nearby footbridge to cross over the road. He didn't. The end result was the guy died from his injuries, the police accident investigation unit found that my mate was driving safely, and as he claimed, at about 55 in a 70 limit. He got away scot free. I can't see any justice in that really, with what's happened to your brother.

You defo need to talk to him-he shouldn't be this bitter. It wasn't your fault at all.
 
Im with penski on this one.. it might just be a tyne and wear thing.. but tell him to go **** himself. if he dont listen to that give him a slap.. while you are on sort your mother out also!!

Its just not on as it wasnt your fault at all.
 
OneWingedAngel said:
Tell him you can't give him a lift as you wouldn't want him to feel guilty if you crashed your car.

That'll shut him up.
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Lol, id also point out to your mum how if you were driving home from work and crashed it wouldn't be works fault as someone else has mentioned. As long as your supporting yourself and not living off of your mother or brother then id tell em where to shove it tbh. There actions and attitude is a disgrace to intelligence and decency.
 
MrLOL said:
his own stupid fault :rolleyes:
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Did you actually read past the part where it said he hit someone?

He did all he possibly could to avoid him, the guy jumped in the same direction that my brother swerved.

He does have a very short fuse, i'm not asking for advice on how to deal with his attitude towards me as that will never change, more so on what to do about the situation with him feeling i am obliged to give him a lift everywhere.

He still has his licence, however the Solicitors have advised that a case like this, going to Crown Court, will result in a minimum 2 year driving ban.
 
No idea what to say about the lifting predicament, but i would like to comment on the BS of the whole situation!?

First off, its not your fault at all he was driving it was foggy. I'd lay this all on the drunken **** stood in the road! Jesus how can your brother possibly be blamed for that by the courts!? That is absolutely shocking, ok maybe he should have been going a bit slower if it was REALLY heavy fog, but how many town centres full of drunkards arent incredibly well lit anyway!? I think your brother is incredibly unlucky and to get a sentence like that, its just ridiculous.
 
I think your brother is an immature idiot for blaming you when he was the one with his foot on the accelerator.

I blamed the curb for my first crash, but the curb doesn't give me a lift everywhere.............................


My Answer - Tell him to sod off.
 
Phil W said:
Did you actually read past the part where it said he hit someone?
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no sorry

but not having read any of the details of the first thread, i was assuming by the way that your brother was re-acting, that you'd asked him to drive your car un-insured, or drive whilst over the drink drive limit or something. Ie something rational that may have implicated you in this.

when i read that it was entirely his own doing, i reacted a little harshly. Granted he was unlucky, and others has said, he's frustrated and needs somebody to blame. But it most certainly isnt you. If he was on his way to work, would he blame work ? theres no way you can say "this wouldnt have happened if i wasnt doing x ..."
 
Phil W said:
He did all he possibly could to avoid him.
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no he didn't, he decided he knew better than the highway code.
a speed limit is exactly that...a limt, not a target.
people hit things because they're going too fast to stop in time, end of story.
initial accident was your brothers fault and ask your mother if she's unclear on the whole thing then why did the court decide to penalise him?

how old is your brother btw?
 
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