Moving out with your partner?

Minxy · 6 Nov 2006 at 18:30

Out of curiousity...and because its something currently affecting my situation. How long did you leave it before you made the decision to move in with your partner? Were you seeing each other a long time or did it seem an easy decision to make early on in your relationship?

Also...do you think it was the right decision for you or given the time again, would you do things differently?

Thanks
Laura

Minxy · 6 Nov 2006 at 19:33

Its not that I have doubts, I'm very happy with my other half and we've always said from the start that we'd move out and now we have the chance to do it. Its just that everyone and their Uncle seems to have an opinion on the subject.

Minxy · 6 Nov 2006 at 20:35

I'm 25 and he's 22. I'd be making an 80 mile shift to live in the area where he is based.

Minxy · 7 Nov 2006 at 19:42

CocoPops said:
The distance could have more of an effect on you, rather than the situation?

80miles is quite a way, so you'd be changing jobs too? changing friends maybe?

I don't see the length of time you've been together as an issue, or rather it shouldn't be.

We really ought to catch up soon I've been bad at that I know.

Hiya Lee, long time no speak!

To be honest the distance really doesn't bother me, my preious boyfriend lived 400miles from me so 80 miles feels like just around thec rner...everything is relative!

My friends aren't relly local anyway besides those I know through work so that doesn't really become an issue particularly as he and I share a lot of friends anyway and as for the job....I couldn't give a monkeys about my current company.