My X is asking me to give up my daughters last name

Doonhamer said:
Its no less the truth having her mother name than her fathers.
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I know, but it sounds to me like when has more children she'd like to "overlook" the fact the one of her children has a different father. Which would be more plausible if they all had the same name, even if it's her name.
 
Stretch said:
I can't see any man being happy with this. And if you love each other enough to have children you shouldn't be hedging your bets over what happens to the names of your children when you split up
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Because the man might not be happy with it her feelings would be completely disregarded?

And at that point it wouldn't be hedging her bets - it's her children having the same family name as their siblings.
 
Kell_ee001 said:
Because the man might not be happy with it her feelings would be completely disregarded?
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No, but nether should the fathers. My half sisters have double barrelled surnames names for this very reason.

Kell_ee001 said:
but she is bound to have learnt from this mistake and give them her surname...
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That's hedging your bets.
 
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I would take a quick visit to the CAB or a solicitor, they'll be in a better position in regards to advise you on your rights.

I think the double barrelled name is a good comprimise and would hope any court would agree.
 
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Hahah, this thread seriously took a turn for the surreal! Two people fighting over whose surname the child gets to have - and they decide to get married to fix it. Most unconventional solution ever!
 
I like it, get married, she gets your name, get divoced next day, all sorted.

Splip in a honeymoon and your laughing.

!!
 
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