That's the thing, you're wagering on achieving a high overclock on the 460 and keeping it stable. Whilst I know the 460 practically overclocks itself, there's no real guarantee you'll get such a high & stable clocks.
Don't get me wrong, I'm actually going to buy a 460 over a 6870, now that the prices of them have risen for the exact reason you've stated. However I do feel the 6870 will pull away in the long run with better drivers and the release of non-reference coolers.
With the case of the OP, since he's upgrading from 2x 5770, I reckon he'd benefit more from a 6870 if he were or had to buy today. However with the new 69xx cards coming out so soon, it's foolish not to wait.
Oh, I think (from what I read) the Xfire scaling on the new 68xx cards is better than SLI now.