Soldato
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Cheers guys. He was a massive troll anyway... perma tbh. 
Need advice getting kicked out
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Serious answer. Your council will have a emergency homeless contact number, contact them and explain your circumstances. You will probably be offered emergency housing (will be in a B&B) for a while before having a meeting with them to discuss your circumstances. Depending on your circumstances, there are various things they can do to help.
Being kicked out isn't really a laughing matter, but there is help out there.
Being kicked out isn't really a laughing matter, but there is help out there.
Soldato
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Sandwiches are free at a casino?
Awesome, didnt know that
I've never been to a casino, but yes I think they do give you free food and drinks. It's just to make the punters gamble more of their hard earned cash.
Hehehe, crikey, Brian is one seriously angry dude.
Indeed I understand what he was saying and as earlier stated agree to an extent but he clearly has anger issues lol
what parent would see their children on the streets at night in the cold? heartless! you will struggle with somewhere to stay with such little notice and you really must work it out with her even if its just untill you can get your own place. if you are claiming a benefit like jsa, you can get a flat or something, its not instant tho!!
more info wud help
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Worse case scenario, apologise and say you will leave tonight because you've ****ed them off so much but explain that you have no where to go and that you respect that they work hard to put a roof over your head.
Then tomorrow ask if there is any thing you can do to come back, if they say no then you're out another night then ask again the next day.
Worst thing you can do is fight. Understand that sometimes you just have to say "ok", whether you agree or not.
Then tomorrow ask if there is any thing you can do to come back, if they say no then you're out another night then ask again the next day.
Worst thing you can do is fight. Understand that sometimes you just have to say "ok", whether you agree or not.
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My suggestions:
If it's the usual the child/teen arguements then a cooling off walk around the block, petrol station flowers and an appology may suffice and try and remain civialised about discussing to sort it (eg if she's kicking you out for a messy bedroom).
If it's a more serious and longer term then look into the hostels and local homesless charities.
Anything inbetween, such as smoking/drugs/drink habit I am not sure how to advise on.
Again talking over it while trying to keep tempers, and maybe taking into suggestion of curing an addiction, not "everybody does it."
If it's the usual the child/teen arguements then a cooling off walk around the block, petrol station flowers and an appology may suffice and try and remain civialised about discussing to sort it (eg if she's kicking you out for a messy bedroom).
If it's a more serious and longer term then look into the hostels and local homesless charities.
Anything inbetween, such as smoking/drugs/drink habit I am not sure how to advise on.
Again talking over it while trying to keep tempers, and maybe taking into suggestion of curing an addiction, not "everybody does it."
Really, rightly or wrongly i think OP and the people speaking for him, are trying to protect him from criticism of his situation when he needs help. Some background information would have course be helpful to those who wish to suggest things for OP to try, but it can also be used as ammunition to criticize him (be that needed or not.)
as acid said
This could be the case, but people who often need it (myself definitely) want to avoid getting into a situation where a person can give them that kick and usually quite defensive about it.
as acid said
This could be the case, but people who often need it (myself definitely) want to avoid getting into a situation where a person can give them that kick and usually quite defensive about it.
Surely almost everyone's reaction to a question like that is (and should be) to ask for more information, I don't know why anyone would see it as nosiness?
How can you try to help without knowing how old he is, what the reasons are, whether he has money, etc? Talking about B&Bs or offering him a spare cardboard box isn't really going to help is it.
How can you try to help without knowing how old he is, what the reasons are, whether he has money, etc? Talking about B&Bs or offering him a spare cardboard box isn't really going to help is it.
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Well I've packed my stuff got all my pictures on SD card. Thank you to everyone who posted help but I got help already now from another forum. I just needed someone to go to as I don't have anyone but too much banter and I'm not a druggy. stoke1863 I have no money.
I hope you sort yourself out dude, and for the record there were plenty of people here willing to try to advise you.
I'm currently 28 and staying at home, its not as uncommon as you think. And before anyone jumps in, im not currently on benefits or heroin. lol