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You move fast damnit.

I got talking to mine through somebody i already knew,did the msn,txt and then spoke on the phone thing. Then we met aggggggges after that n then decided what we wanted lol.

4 weeks???? Hit it for me.
 
A fiver says that you'll still meet up if he admits he's a boy.

If you ask people out via myspace I would imagine you get what you can.
 
iCraig said:
If you ask people out via myspace I would imagine you get what you can.
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Why?

Is meeting someone online not like meeting someone anywhere else?

What socially acceptable methods are there to meet someone?

Is the person you meet online not the same person in RL?
 
cleanbluesky said:
Is the person you meet online not the same person in RL?
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Technically yes, but their personality may not always be the same....

In some cases once you have gotten to know them really well they'll probably start acting the same way they do on the net, a lot of people are who they really are on the net....

but then again, a lot of people are completely different IRL
 
iCraig said:
A fiver says that you'll still meet up if he admits he's a boy.

If you ask people out via myspace I would imagine you get what you can.
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No Shes! a girl no dought about it, shes also very good looking.

And no im not at all desprate in anyway, it sort just happend. Right place right time i guess.
 
cleanbluesky said:
Is meeting someone online not like meeting someone anywhere else?
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No because you have the cloak of partial or full anonymity -- people can be whoever the hell they want online, whereas in real life they can't hide themselves as much. Their appearance and gender for a start.
cleanbluesky said:
What socially acceptable methods are there to meet someone?
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I'm not saying meeting online isn't socially acceptable. Look at the success of online dating agencies. However, Myspace is not a dating agency. We all know the types of weirdos that hang about on Myspace and I would be very suspicious about a so called "girl" who's basically throwing herself at some random guy that asked her out over the internet.
cleanbluesky said:
Is the person you meet online not the same person in RL?
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Physically yes, but online personas often different from real life ones. I know plenty of people who seem different online than they do in real life. People should be very cautious in meeting up for sexual relationships like this with such a transparent introduction. (If they're not just meeting for sex then that comment probably isn't very valid, but it does seem that way, seeing as they're meeting on Valentines day and they've been exchanging dirty pictures.)
 
HAz said:
No Shes! a girl no dought about it, shes also very good looking.

And no im not at all desprate in anyway, it sort just happend. Right place right time i guess.
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Don't let people criticise you for the way you may have met the person. You are the only person who can KNOW whether something is Right or not, all you could learn here is whether it is socially acceptable.

From talking to my friends, it is a lot more socially acceptable than you would think. Both long-distance relationships and meeting people online isn't an issue. I know at least one of my friends is in a long-distance relationship, and meeting people online is as good as any other way of meeting them.
 
Phate said:
Technically yes, but their personality may not always be the same....

In some cases once you have gotten to know them really well they'll probably start acting the same way they do on the net, a lot of people are who they really are on the net....

but then again, a lot of people are completely different IRL
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Im 99% certain this is how we will be at first, but we understand that deep down were the same ppl that speak together on msn.

It could take a week, a month, but im sure once we have seen a lot of each other it will be no diffrent.
 
iCraig said:
People should be very cautious in meeting up for sexual relationships like this with such a transparent introduction. (If they're not just meeting for sex then that comment probably isn't very valid, but it does seem that way, seeing as they're meeting on Valentines day and they've been exchanging dirty pictures.)
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I find this very odd indeed - what are your views on one night stands then?
 
HAz said:
So met this girl :eek: on my space, and we have been talking for about 3/4 weeks, well we realy like each other and have been texting in the day at work.

We both want to meet up but she lives like 1 hr 45 from me, so its not ideal lol.
She text me today and said she wanted to meet this wednesday (valintines day ) so im wondering should I get her a card or anything?

Ive been on dates befor but not like this lol.

Any of u guys met a girl online irl? was she what us expected?


cheers

shy Haz
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Bunch of flowers (tesco £4 :D )


and you might as well go see her, whats the worst that can happen


i was chatting to a lass online for must have been nearly 3 years, but we decided to meet up for a dirty weekend.......and that was that, still chat to her but she is quite a way away
 
HAz said:
No Shes! a girl no dought about it
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Pictures aren't always proof.

I would definitely want to hear her on the phone and see her on something that you couldn't simply pass a picture along, like a webcam or something. :)
 
Goatyman said:
I find this very odd indeed - what are your views on one night stands then?
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That's completely different as you've actually met and spoken to the person. Unless they're a hologram the person standing infront of you stands a much better chance of being genuine than some username on myspace with her gender set as F. It's very easy for a weirdo to upload a few pics of a random girl online and claim to be her. All I'm saying is that I think there are easier and safer ways to meet people than over Myspace.
 
iCraig said:
Pictures aren't always proof.

I would definitely want to hear her on the phone and see her on something that you couldn't simply pass a picture along, like a webcam or something. :)
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Loaf of bread on her baps?
 
iCraig said:
No because you have the cloak of partial or full anonymity -- people can be whoever the hell they want online, whereas in real life they can't hide themselves as much. Their appearance and gender for a start.

I'm not saying meeting online isn't socially acceptable. Look at the success of online dating agencies. However, Myspace is not a dating agency. We all know the types of weirdos that hang about on Myspace and I would be very suspicious about a so called "girl" who's basically throwing herself at some random guy that asked her out over the internet.


Physically yes, but online personas often different from real life ones. I know plenty of people who seem different online than they do in real life. People should be very cautious in meeting up for sexual relationships like this with such a transparent introduction. (If they're not just meeting for sex then that comment probably isn't very valid, but it does seem that way, seeing as they're meeting on Valentines day and they've been exchanging dirty pictures.)
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You have some fair points but it realy isnt anything like that.
She and I havnt sent one naked pic, she sent me some pic of her not wearing much, but thats about it(old ex bf shot she took).

Shes a realy hounest and nice girl who unfortunalty lost her older brother 3 years ago. There is no way in hell she would send me naked pics at this curent time in the relationship.
 
im kinda going through the same kinda thing.... which is kinda cool but im not expecting anything of it. although a friend of mine is moving near her soon so its possible that i may be able to meet that way. :)

good luck with it buddy, its kinda strange admittedly but theres weirder ways to meet a girl.
 
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