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Okay. Something terrible has happened i'd never expect it would. Basically, me and my girlfriend were out on a saturday night at one of my friends' flat, and we were having a good time and all that. Then she said she's going out for a ciggy with two of her mates, so they go downstairs. I was fine by this point, but then one of her mates barges up upstairs and shouts 'Where's my jacket?! Where is it?!'

I politely asked what is happening, and got a reply that nothing and it's fine. I was worried now, but stayed in the room. She barged up again to find something and I thought **** it, something happened because I've not seen my gf for 15 mins now. I try to get out and they won't let me ; Her mate was like 'What, are you going to hurt me just to get out eh?!' While standing at the door. I didnt want to cause **** so I went back to the room. Then when I could I barged out the house and started looking for the girlfriend, nowhere to be found. I go to the carpark...

And I see her having sex with her ex boyfriend.

She promised me not to ever talk to him again but she did and she went from the door to the carpark with him; it wasnt arranged.

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Let's just say he didn't look well at the end.

Drama ensued, crying, all this ****. We broke up a day later and she explained that since she was with him for a year and how much he hurt her and controlled her, he manipulated her to do it. Her knickers were beside them when I came round, and I saw him ontop of her obviously making moves that would show they are doing it.

She said that all the time he controlled her she felt scared she'd get punched or something, and just went on.


Now im here, single, and it's really, really crap. I love her and I don't know if I should let us be single for a bit then try again, or never forget, never forgive and move on.

What do ?
 
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im not usually an argy bargy offensive type, but if you get back with her you are a raging idiot and this thread was for nothing. shes dosent love you dosent even love herself, shes self destructing so best to stay away and look for someone who wont waste your small and tiny life you have to live. you find her in the carpark having sex with her ex, pretend to be one of us reader and put yourself in our shoes rather than your lovey rose tinted ones, its disgusting and you should stay clear, i know love hurts and i know you feel attatched but damn, what a tramp.
 
Women.

Okay. Something terrible has happened i'd never expect it would. Basically, me and my girlfriend were out on a saturday night at one of my friends' flat, and we were having a good time and all that. Then she said she's going out for a ciggy with two of her mates, so they go downstairs. I was fine by this point, but then one of her mates barges up upstairs and shouts 'Where's my jacket?! Where is it?!'

I politely asked what is happening, and got a reply that nothing and it's fine. I was worried now, but stayed in the room. She barged up again to find something and I thought **** it, something happened because I've not seen my gf for 15 mins now. I try to get out and they won't let me ; Her mate was like 'What, are you going to hurt me just to get out eh?!' While standing at the door. I didnt want to cause **** so I went back to the room. Then when I could I barged out the house and started looking for the girlfriend, nowhere to be found. I go to the carpark...

And I see her having sex with her ex boyfriend.

She promised me not to ever talk to him again but she did and she went from the door to the carpark with him; it wasnt arranged.

To say the least, the boy is not in a good shape right now. And good, the damage I caused him should put his **** away for a while.

Drama ensued, crying, all this ****. We broke up a day later and she explained that since she was with him for a year and how much he hurt her and controlled her, he manipulated her to do it. Her knickers were beside them when I came round, and I saw him ontop of her obviously making moves that would show they are doing it.

She said that all the time he controlled her she felt scared she'd get punched or something, and just went on.


Now im here, single, and it's really, really crap. I love her and I don't know if I should let us be single for a bit then try again, or never forget, never forgive and move on.

What do ?

Just reading that I'm actually angry. What a ****ing ****. I hope you gave him a few physical souvenirs of the ordeal.
 
Not sure what advice you want.

She cheated on you, you can't accept it. Get rid, and move on with your life.

As for hitting him? Meh. When I was younger I gave a kicking to someone for getting off with my girlfriend but ultimately it doesn't solve anything. Don't do it again, is all I'm saying.
 
Ewwww. I doubt you love her, although no doubt you feel you do. Next time something rightly or wrongly makes you feel emasculated/angry/bitter, try not to go lamping people as in hindsight it is always a waste of time and could see you in trouble. A woman of this type thrives on drama, don't be an extra in her biopic.
 
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