Need serious help, I'm in trouble.....

I think you should get closer to the other people in the house no matter how bad/noisy they may be, Then mention it to them so that at least if it does kick off somebody will call old Bill. I would also place some defensive weapons around your place, Note i said defensive not offensive. I would let the local community copper know about him & his threats & him getting kicked out as this may be the start of quite a bit of trouble from this loon. ( Other trouble not involving you i mean)
 
lowrider007 said:
I have been temped to make them aware of the situation so at least they know who to look for if something should happen to me, I'm in my room atm but matey upstairs thinks I'm staying at a friends as that's what I told the landlord , trying to be as quiet as possible, just came home to make this thread to try and get some advice.
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That could also back fire on you telling them you are somewhere else.....he may break into your room thinking you are away so he can trash/steal your stuff...he comes in and finds you there things could get ugly.

sorry not trying to scare you as i can see you're in a bad position already.


still ask your landlord if he can help please.
 
Might be worth seeing if Citizens Advice can point you in the direction of anything I'm sure they've dealt with this before. Tho they may just tell you to go to the police.
 
If you aren't happy with your current situation would it be an idea to start looking for a job near where your nan stays. Live with her and save some money. Don't look at it as running away but as making a fresh start.

In the immediate future phone the police.
 
Considering you're not happy in your current job or where you live plus previous issues around the place (bullying when you were younger) I'd say maybe it is best for you to move on and try something new. It doesn't sound like the best of places to be before this person moved into the same building. As you mentioned you will be leaving a job behind but this could be the perfect opportunity for you to change your life. Obviously easier said then done but you wont get anywhere if you don't try.
 
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Reaper 392 said:
having watched far too many programs like FBI files and whatever i can say that this is a very good method of doing things, however, if you freeze the body beforehand it makes the body go through the woodchipper far more easily and far less messily. also, aim the woodchipper into a reasonably fast moving river in a deserted location to remove all the shredded bits of the body
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You could just aim it into another slightly smaller chipper then finally a blendtec blender. Add vodka and offer it to his addict girlfriend. She'd drink it.
 
Just man the **** up and tell him to **** off.

With scum like that you just have to be upfront and arrogant. Also I'd go with hit first and worry about it later approach I've used throughout my short life.

Essentially he thinks you're a pussy and will take full advantage of it. If he breaks in just smash him with the closest thing to you.
 
normally the threat of getting him kicked out the house would normally make anyone shut up..

its worked for us a lot, get the landlord on your side.. guess thats too late as he's being kicked out.. but you could really mess him up, by working out where he is going to move and telling the next landlord..

if he gets anyone else on your back over this, they would be very stupid to want to follow anything up over this drunk at their age, if they're the same age as you.. i wouldnt worry..


ive had about 5 people kicked out of their homes and im pretty sure they would know it was through my fault, obviously as well as theirs.. but no-ones running after me..

this is the real world, not the school yard, everyone knows how bad it could end up for them.. dont be scared, bullied into thinking you cant ring the police, landlord or use a steel bar
 
I know that this sucks, but your in one of those situations that can't really be resolved by the police or the landlord, so I would suggest moving out. I know you say that you can't afford to, but do you have anything you can sell to make your first rent payment and a deposit? Then buy replacement stuff when you get your existing deposit back. Yes, you would likely lose out on such a deal, but it's better than this guy trashing all your stuff or worse.

Worst case scenario, stick all your stuff in storage, give your landlord notice and doss with your boss, or in your car or whatever until you get your deposit back and get another place. Take a gym membership and you will have access to shower and facilities etc if your work don't provide them.
 
lowrider007 said:
I spoke to the police earlier on, but I didn't mention any names though, I don't want to aggravate him any more than I have, I just went their for advice and they just said if he tries to start on me then lock myself in my room and call the police.
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Really hope thing get better for you. Sorry for the stupid question can you not stay with your parents or brothers/sisters?
 
Go against your nature, offer him out, become a problem to him, trust me he will fold, he will be so out of it and out of his comfort zone if not

RIP lowrider007 :D

I wish I was near you to scare this poohouse
 
MY only real advice would be to move out of the house regardless of what the chap may do. Go to your Gran or a friend and take a few days to sort yourself out.

Find another room to rent within travelling distance to work and begin thinking about looking for work in another area. It sounds as though you are stuck in a rut with little chance of ever improving your situation until you change something.

Take no notice of the GD "man up" nonsense, it is a horrible and frightening position you find yourself in and antagonising someone as unstable as this chap appears to be will not do you any good if you are not physically able to defend yourself, walk away. There is no shame in that whatsoever, and I expect most of those saying it would fill their pants just living in the same house as a drug addled, unpredictable and violent house-mate, let alone getting threatened by one. Don't go and 'offer him out' hoping he is bluffing, he may well not be and it will only make your situation worse. Real life is not the Karate Kid I'm afraid and unstable, unpredictable people are rarely balanced enough to be afraid anyway. Leave him alone and start moving anything of value out of the house as soon as you can.

Treat this as an opportunity to drag yourself out of the situation you are in. Remember that as soon as you are out of the sight of this fool he is likely to forget about you in short order, his self hate will focus on other things more immediate to his vicinity and if he is saying that he is going to get others to hassle you, it is because he is a bully who is afraid of the consequences of doing it himself. People who are genuinely hard don't talk about what they are going to do, they simply do it.

I don't know where you live, but as hard as it may be, changing your life situation seems like something you want and need to do. Use this jerk-off as the catalyst.

You can PM me if you want to vent or if I can help answer any questions, feel free.
 
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i agree that starting a new life for your self will probably be better if you're unhappy.

but if you're unwilling to leave, it'll have to be fight fire with fire
 
If we all get together we could take him, i'll go in 3rd behind Freefaller and Morba.:p Which area of the country are we talking about here?
 
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