Need some advice! (another relationship one...)

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evening all,

right, heres the back ground story, about a month ago my girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me! since then ive done my hurting about that ending etc....

shes removed from facebook/twitter and all of that....

but a couple of days ago, ive found out that my so called "close friend" has been messaging her and texting her none stop and she has been doing the same back and theres something going on with them.

now its clear something is going on with them, wether its friends with benefits or they are together, i know theres something but i dont know what exactly.

now this "close friend" we were quite close but kinda drifted away from each other they never made an effort with me.....

i dont want to be back with the girl, but im sat here hurting over the fact that both my "close friend" and a girl that said she loved me could do that to me?

i was finally starting to feel better, getting happier etc.. and then this....
knocks me back to square one....

how would you advice i deal with this as ive had enough of hurting :(
 
Go get cozy with his ex and see how he likes it.... unless she looks like an extra from the walking dead
 
He's broken an important Bro rule.

You'll just have to ignore both of them I'm afraid, not much else you can do!
 
Buy an axe and chop them into pieces, feed them to pigs then set yourself on fire. That'll teach them!
 
Fap.

Now when I say fap, not a light hearted glorious 20 min fap, I mean a full on fapathon - do it so much that the skin starts to wear down due to excessive friction.

Once you have successfully snapped the banjo string - fap a few more times to really feel the pain. Once this has been accomplished, you will now no longer be thinking of your ex and mate, you will be fully concentrating on your severed penis.

Tried and tested method, trust me.
 
benjo said:
He's broken an important Bro rule.

You'll just have to ignore both of them I'm afraid, not much else you can do!
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You could do as benjo says or you could just start doing your own thing, don't go out of your way to ignore them just take the high ground and get out with some friends you like.
 
She has gone and he clearly 'wasn't' a good friend!

Forget the pair of them, rise above and get back on track and enjoy your life the best way you can.

<Crude> Go smash some pasty! </crude>
 
Welcome to the real world, where *******s and ***** thrive.

Unfortunately, even giving recognition that it's hurting you empowers them and weakens yourself.

You're going to have to move on, and if I was you, would get down on your knee's tonight and thank Christ that it happened now rather than when it could have gotten a whooooooooooole load more complicated.
 
sports_brah said:
Unfortunately, even giving recognition that it's hurting you empowers them and weakens yourself.

You're going to have to move on
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yeah trouble is in my mind ive already recognized that it hurts, and its kinda to just un recognize :(

i thought i had managed to move on :/
clearly not.....

i dont want the girl, but the whole thing still hurts deeply :/
 
Provided she didn't cheat on you with him, I don't see the problem, ESPECIALLY if you haven't seen him that much recently.

Obviously it's not going to feel nice, but ultimately, you just have to get over it. Sorry :(
 
Ignore them both, no doubt when it all breaks down he will either try and "catch up" thinking you are none the wiser. Then:



something about a boxing stance.
 
Put it down to the pair of them being ****s and move on mate. It's the only thing you can do. The sooner you accept that, and don't carry on questioning it, the sooner you'll deal it and move on. Life is a *****, this stuff happens.
 
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