"Nice guys finish last"

area51_for_psx · 10 Sep 2006 at 00:52

This is one thing that is true in this life. Its actually the only thing I am postive of. The whole nice guys finish last syndrome.

Everyone has seen it and will experience it sometime in their lives. The typical reply to a nice guy asking a girl out is "I just want to be friends. I dont want to destroy our friendship" And at that exact time they decided to go with the biggest waste of space and a girl that is destined to break their hearts and treat them like something they walked on.

The nice guy then stands back and watches the girl go through hell and get her heart broke. Then the phone call "He broke up with me. I feel awful will you come round"

THis is when the nice guy picks up the piecies of her broken heart and then a few months later it happens all over again.

I personaly am sick of this. I stand here before you calling for a revolution. I want every nice guy to realise we can stand up to this we do not have to be there back up.

I am calling for every nice guy to stand up and be counted. We need to start not returning their calls not picking up there mess. We need to be strong we need to be firm. Please confin your friends list. And do not agree to be friends.

Walk away. If they only want to be friends they can be friends with someone else. We need to show them we arnt their for them anymore. We wont help them we wont be their shoulder to cry on.

Then maybe they will realise we can be boyfriends as well and we wont treat them like crap, All we need is a chance.

So who is going to join me

A5H · 10 Sep 2006 at 00:54

I have whiskey and metal. All is well.
**** women at the moment. They all seem to be immoral little whores of late.
Or maybe I'm just bitter.

PardonTheWait · 10 Sep 2006 at 00:55

Nice guys don't finish last.

Mugs finish last.

You're a mug.

That's not the same as a nice guy.

I don't want to be mean, but we've seen you go through all this crap for years on this forum and get really low over it - seriously, snap out of it.

Nice guy + silly little tart isn't going to work

Nice guy + nice girl will work

So you just have to keep on truckin' til you find a nice girl, or detach yourself a bit and have fun.

area51_for_psx · 10 Sep 2006 at 00:57

Hi mohinder. Not down over this. As you cant be low while trying to start a revolution

oxist258 · 10 Sep 2006 at 00:57

This is such a common thing! But so not true... no doubt that some girls go for bad boys, but the majority don't. So a girl calls you and whinges about something that her boyfriend has done - that doesn't make him a bad boy, it makes it a normal relationship! With the exception of a very few bad apples, I don't think any guy is a perfectly 'good' guy - everyone messes up sometimes. I've been out with a few guys who everyone says are good guys - they can still hurt you along the way, but that doesn't make them bad.

Welshy · 10 Sep 2006 at 01:03

The "I dont want to ruin our friendship" line just means they dont want to go out with you, more often than not it has nothing to do with your friendship. My current girlfriend and i became pretty close mates while we were at school, and then obviously started going out together.

You'll get there eventually mate, you just need to find a girl that likes you, and posting about it on these forums isnt really going to help you do that

area51_for_psx · 10 Sep 2006 at 01:07

Umm the revolution isnt going well

*hands out drinks*

mattx2 · 10 Sep 2006 at 01:10

I'm sure its been posted before just read www.laddertheory.com

KaHn · 10 Sep 2006 at 01:12

Mohinder said:
Nice guys don't finish last.

Mugs finish last.

You're a mug.

That's not the same as a nice guy.

I don't want to be mean, but we've seen you go through all this crap for years on this forum and get really low over it - seriously, snap out of it.

Nice guy + silly little tart isn't going to work

Nice guy + nice girl will work

So you just have to keep on truckin' til you find a nice girl, or detach yourself a bit and have fun.

Me and you actually think very much alike

KaHn

Gilly · 10 Sep 2006 at 01:21

Christ, you're as cyclical as GD

Nice guys don't finish last, you can be a nice guy and still be selfish. In fact its required. Not to be a nice guy, but to survive.

Biohazard · 10 Sep 2006 at 01:23

Mohinder said:
Nice guys don't finish last.

Mugs finish last.

You're a mug.

That's not the same as a nice guy.

I don't want to be mean, but we've seen you go through all this crap for years on this forum and get really low over it - seriously, snap out of it.

Nice guy + silly little tart isn't going to work

Nice guy + nice girl will work

So you just have to keep on truckin' til you find a nice girl, or detach yourself a bit and have fun.

couldn't agree more. Tarts are more trouble than they're worth, and they are always whoring it up. A leopard doesn't change its spots

willd58 · 10 Sep 2006 at 01:49

Couldnt agree more with the, your not a nice guy, your a mug, comment.

Neoni · 10 Sep 2006 at 02:05

Mohinder has seen me through what i thought was the worst case scenario ever.

Saberu · 10 Sep 2006 at 02:19

When a girl wants to be friends with you sometimes she also wants to find out if you fancy her. So you can still be friends with her and have a chance just don't give her any hints till your ready to make a move and shes single.

M0T · 10 Sep 2006 at 02:29

Saberu said:
When a girl wants to be friends with you sometimes she also wants to find out if you fancy her. So you can still be friends with her and have a chance just don't give her any hints till your ready to make a move and shes single.

This majorly backfires. If you become friends with a girl then she will inevitably find out your insecurities and any problems you have. Girls don't want an insecure guy, so if she becomes friends with you you run the risk of putting her off without knowing it.

I'm pretty messed up and a girl came on to me, but we just became friends because I was really not ready for a relationship. Later on she no longer wanted to go out with me because she knew all my problems, had I gone out with her and slowly revealed myself things may have been different.

The only realy way to overcome that scenario is to cut them out for an extended period of time and then try again when things are different.

Violent-J · 10 Sep 2006 at 02:32

I'm a nice guy and I succeed at everything I do. Being a nice guy doesn't mean being weak and taking ****, if you're a mug you'll get took for one end of.

-Ad- · 10 Sep 2006 at 02:34

WEll im a nice ****ing guy and i did finish last. always !!! far too shy etc etc. Then uni came...

FInally after 3 years i got my courage up, and now im a cheaky little bugger. It does astonish some girls but they eventually seem to grow to it. Plenty of confidence and complements go a long way.

Let the heartbreakers go out and do their bidding, then let them die in a hole in the groud. One of my housemates has had a thing for this gril from our first year where he seems to bone here a few times duriing hte year. She confessed her feelings for me when i went don to see her a few weeks ago, and gues what.... iflet the same. She had been away for year on her year abraod and i hadn;t been in contact that much. Feelings stayed there... we are all living together next year with other friends... and i can't wait

Nice guy sdon't always finish last.

p.s. she is hot

excuse me... french vino is alllllll good.

Steve09 · 10 Sep 2006 at 02:34

Hes a mug lmao

I could do with a mug of beer

I'm thirsty

Saberu · 10 Sep 2006 at 02:35

M0T said:
This majorly backfires. If you become friends with a girl then she will inevitably find out your insecurities and any problems you have.

Well everyone knows you should NEVER tell girls your insecurities and problems before they are your gf. Thats the 101 rule.

Zip · 10 Sep 2006 at 02:38

Im a nice guy and ive Become into first Position Twice

Then been crushed like a bug a few months on both times

Getting there is hard, holding it is even harder