I would skip the standard 18-55 unless you get it basically for free and instead go for a better kit lens like the 18-105mm VR or 18-140mm VR as long as you get these as a kit with a reasonable saving compared to individual retail. These lenses will also typically appear second hand at a low price. I recommend these because they have a better zoom range and image quality. The 18-55mm is fine but it has a very slow aperture f/5.6(doesn't let much light in) and a very short zoom range so is not very attractive. My recommendation is to either go for a lens that still has the slow aperture but gives you a long zoom range like the 18-140mm or 16-85, OR you go for a lens that has a short zoom range like 17-50,m but has a much faster brighter aperture (f/2.8) such as the Tamron 17-50mm f/2.8. The kit 18-55mm is the worst aspects of both types of lenses so it not that useful IMO, but the photos it produces are fine for general photography.
Then I would add the Nikon 35mm f/1.8 DX (there is a similar lens that is not DX but that is more expensive and not needed)- this will be great for portraits.
And I would probably stop there for the time being with an an eye to buy some kind of telephoto zoom, 55-200, 55-300, 70-300 etc.