Nice constructive post 
Aside from what I put above I would go back to basics, you have jumped around and tried so many different things with no clear methodology.
Firstly set RAM to the rated timings (9-9-9-20) and the rated voltage, rule that out.
Secondly, lower the BCLK and start again on 191x21 (or 20x as you see in your bios with turbo enabled as a different option). Then set the vcore to 1.26v with LLC enabled and VTT set to 1.3v. Set RAM to rated voltage and IOH to the lowest value, PLL to 1.8v which is stock too. Your obviously getting somewhere with the clocking if Prime can blend for 4 hours without issue but fail IBT.
Also to note the BSOD you got previously (clock interrupt not received on secondary processor) will typically mean not enough vcore.
The above are just starting voltages, a good starter would be 1.3v for both vcore and vtt and move from there. Want to get it stable first (or at least passing longer than 1 test) before tweaking things down

Aside from what I put above I would go back to basics, you have jumped around and tried so many different things with no clear methodology.
Firstly set RAM to the rated timings (9-9-9-20) and the rated voltage, rule that out.
Secondly, lower the BCLK and start again on 191x21 (or 20x as you see in your bios with turbo enabled as a different option). Then set the vcore to 1.26v with LLC enabled and VTT set to 1.3v. Set RAM to rated voltage and IOH to the lowest value, PLL to 1.8v which is stock too. Your obviously getting somewhere with the clocking if Prime can blend for 4 hours without issue but fail IBT.
Also to note the BSOD you got previously (clock interrupt not received on secondary processor) will typically mean not enough vcore.
The above are just starting voltages, a good starter would be 1.3v for both vcore and vtt and move from there. Want to get it stable first (or at least passing longer than 1 test) before tweaking things down