the man wants the best, and he wants to spend money, this is not really rational... wish i had the money to spare to do it as well!
Go for a 790i based motherboard
Possibly look into an extreme intel chip, if thats too much then go for a lower end and overclock away.
Buy the best DDR you can find, speeds of 1600MHz + at decent timings.
Wait and buy the new nvifia graphics cards and SLi them (Unless you are running dual monitor) if thats the case wait for 4870X2 and xrossfire two of them.
For a case there is a really expensive but great looking Lian Li case...
for hard drives, either the new raptors at raid 0
OR if you REALLY have that much money Hyperdrive4 (RAM based hard disk, search for it in google)