Online dating

Siliconslave said:
Plus she can't have that an interesting love life if shes on online dateing!

[edit] - beat me. online dating is fun, and when im single i combine it with (*GASP*) real life dating for ultimate funs. i dont know why so many people see online dating as a last resort when it, quite clearly, isnt :)
 
I've met up with a couple of girls through faceparty (well three) and went out with one of them but I don't class myself as a total geek because when I was at uni I pulled off about six "old school" scores (albeit with mixed results!).

Thats not bad for somebody who isn't a player.

I'd always be a bit wary of it now though. It does suck a bit not being at uni, and not many of my friends live in Stoke now.
 
Don't be so harsh on yourself. If you speak to a lot of couples you'll find that neither one thought they stood a chance with the other, or at least very similar sentiments.

Good luck and well done for having the balls to go through with it.
 
Did you think there was a 'spark' between you two? Many of the online dates I've been on have come down to the good old 'spark' that you get when you meet someone.
Unfortunately you won't know you have that spark until you meet, which is the problem with online dating.

Don't be discouraged, I've been on quite a few online dates in the past few months and had a great time and met some great new girls, but I've recently found an amazing girl and we're getting along brilliantly.

Make sure and let us all know if she texts, but if not, don't worry, you had a good time and theres plenty more girls! :)
 
its wierd cause yeah i did feel a spark, it was so relaxing to be with her, and i just wanted to talk and talk, she had the dreamiest eyes aswell.

but hey, don't think she felt the same.
 
Mattius said:
its wierd cause yeah i did feel a spark, it was so relaxing to be with her, and i just wanted to talk and talk, she had the dreamiest eyes aswell.

but hey, don't think she felt the same.

bah, dont say stuff like that. you won't know til you know. dont jump the gun because if you get yourself in this mindset and she likes you, too...you'll always think she's too good for you and it'll do your self esteem no good. time will tell, mister :)
 
You shouldn't put your self down Mattius, but huge well done for going through with it. I've been thinking about online dateing for a little while and when things have sorted themselfs out in RL I'll definatly give it a shot.

All the best of luck to you.
 
oh well seems its bad news, just got a text back from her sayin it would be cool to meet up again, she thinks we could be great friends.

take it in female language that means bumped?
 
Mattius said:
oh well seems its bad news, just got a text back from her sayin it would be cool to meet up again, she thinks we could be great friends.

take it in female language that means bumped?

maybe, maybe not - worst case you become friends and you get her to introduce you too her hot mates :D
 
im meeting her for a few games of pool next week, remembered she said last night she loved watching men play pool (think its the ass or something).
so maybe i might still have a chance.
 
Mattius said:
do you think its too forward to ask what she's up to on saturday?

depends, you already have something sorted for next week i'd wait for that, or if your going out and fancy inviting her along maybe. Otherwise i'd just play it cool :)

but at the end of the day its upto you!
 
Mattius said:
do you think its too forward to ask what she's up to on saturday?

Nope, go for it, how can she mind if you ask her what she is doing. If she already has plans don't let it feel like she is "putting you off" she may genuinely have arranged something else.

HEADRAT
 
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