I use mate quite a bit not over use and I don't put it in text messages.
As someone else said if I am out at work and need to get someones attention ie they have their back to me and not very far away I will say "excuse me mate" or "excuse me fella".
I see it as being some what friendly as saying mate implys you mean no harm really. I suppose it depends on how you say it and how often though.
As someone else said if I am out at work and need to get someones attention ie they have their back to me and not very far away I will say "excuse me mate" or "excuse me fella".
I see it as being some what friendly as saying mate implys you mean no harm really. I suppose it depends on how you say it and how often though.