paranioa help

ninjaskull · 6 Jul 2006 at 15:56

hi this is quite a personal subject for me so no jokes, thanks

I suffer from really bad paranioa, and was wondering if anyone else here did.
Is there something that stops you from being paranoid, even for a while?
Is there something I can do to stop it?

it's just I have a girlfriend and I am worried that my paranioa will ruin our relationship.

I havn't told her because of what might happen.
I don't want her to feel she can't do anything.

it's not that what she does makes me paranoid it's just I think she will find someone better and end it with me to be with them.

paranoia has ruined a relationship before between me and a girl and girls have used me and ended it to be with someone else before.

I know no one on this forum would but please don't take the mick.

thanks

Murray

ninjaskull · 6 Jul 2006 at 16:01

Le_Petit_Lapin said:
Well, what exactly are you overly paranoid about, something specifically, or just general paranoia?

just paranoid generally but especially that she'll leave me.

ninjaskull · 6 Jul 2006 at 16:01

SexyBetty said:
Is it paranoia or just jealously?

it's paranoia

ninjaskull · 6 Jul 2006 at 16:03

Gilly said:
Do you trust her? Thats the important thing.

Also, how old are you?

I used to be rather paranoid and rather jealous, because I had very strong moral values but didn't trust other people to mirror that. I think that only came with age.

I do trust her, but she said she would stop smoking (because I have bad lungs and was sick once when she smoked) but then she smoked like twice after, but she told me she had, so I trust her.

im 17.

I did get picked on for years and years at school so maybe that is part of the reason why I am?

ninjaskull · 6 Jul 2006 at 16:04

vonhelmet said:
See a doctor if you think it's bad enough to start threatening relationships.

I don't have enough money to see a doctor.
I am 17 and in a part time job.
all my money would be gone if i saw a doctor.
and I need money to buy food + clothing.
but I really don't want the relationship to end

ninjaskull · 6 Jul 2006 at 16:05

she hasn't done anything to make me feel like this, i am always paranoid

ninjaskull · 6 Jul 2006 at 16:06

Van_Dammesque said:
Well if you take any drugs (of the recreational type) quit them. if you take medication check to see if the side effects are paranoia.

don't do drugs and I don't take medication

ninjaskull · 6 Jul 2006 at 16:06

vonhelmet said:
I assume you're in a country that doesn't have free healthcare, right?

I live in the UK but you have to pay to see doctors about paranoia.
and I am not getting my parents involved.