Autism tends to run in families and neither my family or my ex's families had any history of autism so that wasnt an issue for us in deciding about vaccinations. Myself and my ex were carers for adults with autism, and as the time for the mmr came around, she wasnt displaying any signs of autistic traits.
And also, I knew a young child who is only about a year older than Megan who has been diagnosed as autistic. I used to babysit him, and looking back now the signs were obvious. He had the mmr, and his parents do not think that it caused any problems that werent already starting.
We were happy for her to have the mmr jab, but if we could've afforded the single jabs and afforded to get to the clinic 100 miles away to get them done then we would've. The only issue we had was our child having as few of the unnescessary ingredients put into her body as possible, but the price for the single jabs would've been in the hundreds which just wasnt possible. We'd rather she was protected so went ahead with the mmr.
I have been very lucky in that all of the health visitors I have had have respected my knowledge and opinions. My ex pointed out that the first few vaccinations our newborn would have would be filled with preservatives, and we didnt like the idea of filling our tiny baby with stuff that she didnt need.
So, she had the seperate jabs instead of the usual bundles of them within the first few months. The health visitor suggested having the nursery age booster shots which would be just as effective as the bundles. It meant she had more injections, but it also meant that we were filling her body with as close to the only important stuff as possible.