Partners...

Kavalree · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:20

Why must my girlfriend insist I buy this that and the other? She has her own job and own money, yet tries to dictate how I spend mine. My 21st is coming up and with the money from the sale, I have to pay to go away!!

All I want is an SSD

BunnyKillBot · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:24

If its an issue, you could try *shock horror* talking to her

[FnG]magnolia · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:29

You're 21 so it's unlikely that this girlfriend will be a problem for much longer.

If, uh, that helps at all.

cm1179 · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:29

stop being a sissy and tell her like it is

Brian8bit · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:30

Clearly you aren't knocking her about enough.

Spook187 · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:31

Jaffa_Far said:
Why must my girlfriend insist I buy this that and the other? She has her own job and own money, yet tries to dictate how I spend mine. My 21st is coming up and with the money from the sale, I have to pay to go away!!

Because you are letting her dictate to you it really is that simple,is it that hard to say shut it woman its my money and i do whatever i want with my hard earned cash.have you tried a hooker lol

burtie · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:32

Slap her with your snake.

[TW]Fox · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:33

What a lame thread.

loopylou · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:34

I have never told my husband how to spend his money ... perhaps your girlfriend is a bit of a crap one

Paul11 · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:37

sounds like you need to put your foot down other wise its not looking like a happy future..

OriginalJonty · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:40

You're failing to keep your pimp hand strong.

Theophany · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:41

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Testicles

Grow a pair of these. Problem solved.

Kavalree · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:47

She throws a wobbler if I don't spend it on her, and spending it on my PC is 'wasting it'. Yet she spends her money on silly teddies and JLS and stuff...which is more of a waste?

Theophany · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:49

Jaffa_Far said:
Yet she spends her money on silly teddies and JLS and stuff...which is more of a waste?

JLS stuff includes the Durex condoms they're marketing? If so, not such a waste.

But seriously, MTFU. Tell her, we can't fix it for you (legally).

OriginalJonty · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:50

It's your money. You shouldn't spend on her because she is demanding you do and throws a tantrum if you don't.

Xez · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:50

Jaffa_Far said:
She throws a wobbler if I don't spend it on her, and spending it on my PC is 'wasting it'. Yet she spends her money on silly teddies and JLS and stuff...which is more of a waste?

Sounds like you need to man up, she's use to getting her own way. Let her throw a wobbly and be firm. She'll soon come running back as you aren't reacting

Jingo... · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:52

How embaressing.

Talk to your partner about your feelings rather than bleating about it on the internet.

Beans on toast Dave · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:52

you will look back in 10 or so years and wish you had manned up!

peterattheboro · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:53

How does the sort of guy who faps over an SSD drive get a girlfriend in the first place?

Count yourself lucky sir!

LiE · 19 Feb 2011 at 20:55

Grow some balls.