This is false. 3D Vision 2 fits perfectly well over my glasses, even though my lenses are pretty big as far as glasses go. And it does not flicker. It alternates 120 times a second -- this is completely unnoticeable. The reason people get nausea and dizziness using 3D is not specific to active 3D. In fact I've only ever had it with passive 3D at cinemas. The reason people feel these effects is because the brain has to work twice as hard trying to interpret what the eyes are seeing. (Exacerbated if one of your eyes is weaker than the other. This can happen with BOTH types of 3D. I can't stress this enough. But with that said I've only ever experienced it at the cinema which happens to use passive 3D. When sitting close to my monitor with active 3D glasses on I've never had headache or nausea issues. These things can affect different people differently, but to claim that active 3D causes flicker or that it is responsible for dizziness, headaches or nausea is patently false.)
And pop out isn't distracting. It's the reason you use 3D in teh first place. The pop out is incredible. Magical. Immersive. Passive 3D is the poor man's 3D. Active 3D is in every way superior.
And as for the performance hit, if you're that concerned just halve your resolution (which is precisely what passive 3D does!) and you will have equal performance.
I'd rather play full resolution and have the alternative of a silky smooth 120Hz display when not using 3D. I could never go back to using a 60Hz desktop. So I say no to passive 3D with its poor ressolution, ghosting and all that other crap.