Potato puns.

Threepwood said:
I know, and I agree, though when we are together things are pretty okay. Which, does not sound amazing either... but we're at the 'shall we move back in together or what?' point. I'm really torn on this, I don't like the idea of living together and splitting up again. Mostly because I don't want a repeat of our child going through that again.
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Make yourself happy, if you stay with long-distance woman you might resist this short distance one, but there will be another, and another, and you're just fighting against the tide of your own happiness which will eventually blow up in your face with long-distance woman and you'll wish you'd done it earlier.
 
Threepwood said:
I've tried, and, I really do manage to. But then we bump into each other and the le sigh ensues all over again.
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You're a 38 year old man FFS not a troubled teen, use that phrase in front of your new tease and all will be solved she go off and look for a grown up instead.
 
Evangelion said:
Grow up. At 38 you shouldn't be still acting like you're 15.
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If you've found a woman who can give you the flutters like you're 15 again, that's generally a winner... or in this case a serious temptation.

Threepwood said:
Stupid may.
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**** you, Clarkson, you ****... Oh, sorry, wrong May!! :p

Here's a thought - How open-minded is this current one of yours...? :D
Open relationships can and do work...

On the other hand, you haven't said anything about how much you love your current and are soooo committed to her, or anything. In fact, you're considering moving back in, but you even have concerns about that...

Either get with the threesome/part-time thing, or have a good sit-down and think about your feelings for the current. Bear in mind that this young kid may 'grow up' sooner or later and decide she wants someone else, at which point you've ditched Long Distance Clara for One-Night Wanda... and that's all assuming that Wanda actually wants you in the first place - Are you 100% certain you're 'reading her signals' correctly and not about to make a colossal **** of yourself, here?

No direct answer really, but some things to think very carefully about...


Failing that, forget the pair of them and go buy a Harley Davidson!! :D
 
Halfmad said:
Long term, long distance? Yeah that doesn't sound like much of a relationship.

Personally I'd be test driving the more local, younger model.
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I'm thinking long these lines. If she fits you better, you only live once and go for it. You can still be there for your child, whether you're in a long distance with their mother or with someone else.

Evangelion said:
If you're not really committed to your girlfriend, at least have the decency to end it before you start shagging someone else.
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This equally.
 
The long distance relationship sounds a bit half baked to me. There's no point in you both uprooting now so I'd suggest going for the younger girl. Try putting on your best jacket and taking her out for a bag of chips.

You should probably end it with your girlfriend first or you'll get an absolute roasting.
 
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