Love yourself more then anyone else and next time perhaps you'll be the one leaving them.
Pretty sure GF is cheating on me.
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Love yourself more then anyone else and next time perhaps you'll be the one leaving them.
We're not all bad! I never have, and never would cheat on a partner- I've been cheated on and it sucks to be betrayed by someone you care about so much.
Nitrojan, definitely break up with her because it's clear that she's cheating- and try and rise above being nasty to her, or sleeping with anyone close to her to hurt her, or doing any stupid childish **** like that. Eventually she will realise that she had a good thing with you, and she will regret it, and she'll probably be kicking herself for it- trust me, she'll punish herself way more than you could punish her now if you walk away with your held head high, and behave as the bigger person. Not easy to do, but it will work.
She's not worth your time, she doesn't really think much of you if she can do what she has.
Giving in? Not sure what that means. She is cheating on you. "It's over", done.
Seems a bit odd though the guy's girlfriend goes off on a car washing outing with another man behind his back and he takes it ?
Right then and there I'd have resolved the situation. He's leaving himself wide open for it.
Leave the Skank and dont give her an explanation either let it bang round her head !
She doesnt care about you, whatever you do is pretty much pointless. Just end it.
I don't think so. I think he's started this thread because he can't bring himself to do what needs to be done (when was the last time you started a thread on an internet forum about your love life?..), and if he doesn't, she'll play him like a cheap harmonica. He'll be much better off without her. And yah, I mean you would need to be dense to continue that relationship.
Either way, good luck OP
.Seems a bit odd though the guy's girlfriend goes off on a car washing outing with another man behind his back and he takes it ?
Right then and there I'd have resolved the situation. He's leaving himself wide open for it.
That's probably part of the reason why she's seeking other men and also the reason why Nitrojan is reluctant to just walk away. He's being taken for a ride and yet can't see what is happening.
Odd to you but not odd to all, hes in love with the girl and doesn't want to believe his relationship has gone to ****. I can understand that, hopefully now he has read the replies he'll except the situation more and kick the bitch to the curb.Seems a bit odd though the guy's girlfriend goes off on a car washing outing with another man behind his back and he takes it ?
Right then and there I'd have resolved the situation. He's leaving himself wide open for it.
Leave the Skank and dont give her an explanation either let it bang round her head !
I did confront her.. and thats when we both agreed that he was a complete ****stirrer and that we'd delete him off facebook. She made me believe she sent him a text saying how much of one he is. I made her show me her texts that night and there were none she had sent to him. It all sounded so convincing.. and because I loved her so much, I gave it a chance. She told me "I have never given you a reason to not trust me" which I cannot fault.. because in our 1 year 3 months.. she never has.. she has always been 100% honest and trustworthy. This is why I cannot understand why this is happening!
I Hope so.
So you know she's lied to you about it and about the cinema more than likely. She's been messaging him on FB, he thinks they might be together, she called you a ****. She's obviously not trustworthy, don't start thinking about what has happened in the last year or so, think about now, think about what is going on now and how she has lied to you. She could quite easily have deleted the txts from her sent box, it's all too simple.
Yet you still want to talk to her about it? I'd be ****ing fuming! No way in hell would I give her ANY chance to explain what she's done, you know all there is to know. It's over, the sooner you get rid the better, don't even bother explaining to her. Just tell her you know what's been going on and it's over.
Yet you still want to talk to her about it? I'd be ****ing fuming! No way in hell would I give her ANY chance to explain what she's done, you know all there is to know. It's over, the sooner you get rid the better, don't even bother explaining to her. Just tell her you know what's been going on and it's over.
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Its a horrible feeling isn't it? Just like a rabbit caught in front of the headlights.
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You assume she's been honest but if she is lying to your face about what a **** he is then going behind your back with him AGAIN, imagine what else she's lied about and you havent found out yet :/
Been there.. with my ex, I knew he was cheating and his excuses were flimsy, completely unbelievable, but I believed them because I wanted to so badly- it didn't seem right that someone who used to love me could behave in that way. It's hard when you love a person so much, but try and fully accept that she's cheating, give it time, and you will definitely see her for what she is, without it hurting so much and feeling so humiliating. Trust me, eventually you'll meet someone who makes you realise what a real woman is all about, and this whole time will just seem like it happened to someone else.