Well, actually each particularly cut of steak should be cooked in a slightly different way.
Why?
Why doesn't it depend how that person likes it?
Why does technicality trump actual taste?
And if any of that were at all true, why don't I like it the way you say I should?
Certainly each different cut
might more readily lend itself toward being done a certain way, but that doesn't mean it's the only way that cut should be done, or that it cannot be liked a different way by someone, even if that someone is in a minority.
It's not some snobbish food-elitism, if you actually went to a steakhouse and did some blind testing it'd be completely obvious.
Having done exactly this, I can quite categorically state that I like my steak one particular way and no other.
How someone else likes theirs is of no concern to me unless I'm catering for them. The mere fact that one would tell someone else how they should like something
is both quite snobbish and a little elitist.
Rare is 49c which is hardly cold, medium-rare is 54c. If it's cold in the middle, it's blue which 90% of people wouldn't recommend.
Texturally it's red and cold, which I do not like. If it's not cold already, it goes cold very quickly. I can only assume there's a ****-load of michelin starred chefs out there who cannot cook steak for ****...?
It's not lecturing, it's just about having an awareness on how to cook something.
OK, so do I grill, fry, barbecue, bake, roast or sous vide this steak?
Because that's always the next point of argument that gets people all fired up....
Buying a fillet steak and cooking it well-done is like buying a Ferrari and only ever driving it in a 30mph zone. It works, but you're not getting the full experience.*
Which is what, exactly?
Tell me exactly what it is I should be experiencing and why it is so much better than what I already know I like... for both a Ferrari and a steak - Bearing in mind I already own a vehicle that hits 60mph in under 3 seconds and can pass 150mph without blinking, but rarely even exceed the 70mph speed limit... and bearing in mind I have already tried dozens of steaks dozens of different ways, from supposedly amazing chefs, but have already found a method I like better than much of what I was given as 'the best'...