Mate... I've had a really rough day yesterday, I haven't really slept all night, I just finished dealing with the police, I understand a lot of people here hate me and think I'm a troll but do you really think after all this I would waste my time making a troll thread? I might say a lot of rubbish but I don't make stuff up to this extent in a britboy style. I honestly feeling vulnerable and just need someone to talk to, I don't want to speak with my parents because she alienated me from them and ruined our relationship, something I will work on eventually. Even if it's lots of people attacking me here I'll still keep posting in hopes it might make me feel better. I say eventually because I will have no sympathy from my step dad and my mother will just say "I told you so", right now I don't need that as it will only make me feel worse.
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Mate... I've had a really rough day yesterday, I haven't really slept all night, I just finished dealing with the police, I understand a lot of people here hate me and think I'm a troll but do you really think after all this I would waste my time making a troll thread? I might say a lot of rubbish but I don't make stuff up to this extent in a britboy style. I honestly feeling vulnerable and just need someone to talk to, I don't want to speak with my parents because she alienated me from them and ruined our relationship, something I will work on eventually. Even if it's lots of people attacking me here I'll still keep posting in hopes it might make me feel better. I say eventually because I will have no sympathy from my step dad and my mother will just say "I told you so", right now I don't need that as it will only make me feel worse.
How do you know every relationship involving her has failed?
Has she told you this herself?
Yes, she has 3 childs from 3 different dads and also she tells me a lot of stories about her old boyfriends. I don't need to ask much, she talks a lot, specially when she's drunk.
This is the time to talk to your parents and sort these things out, time to apologise for any mishaps and let bygones be bygones.
His ex gf is a psycho.
To be honest franco, the best thing you can do is go some where else for a few days (since she knows where you live) try and follow through with the police, stress that this isn't the first time, she has a gambling and alcohol problem, call social services, and try to ignore her! I know it might be hard if you are in love with her, but women like that will bring you nothing but trouble. Delete all her numbers, block them if you can, don't make any contact with her and certainly DON'T give her any more money. I am sorry, but you did make it worse when you kept enabling her, as she probably now just views you as a door mat and probably doesn't feel any thing for you, sorry to be blunt, but you need to understand she is more than likely using you and needs to be forgotten about. Move on, find a girl who won't do this too you and be happy in life!
I will, I already tried to apologise to my step dad but he won't accept it and my mother always forgives me in the end. She will just nag me until the end of the time but that's it. They think I'm leaving the country tomorrow but obviously I'm not going any more.
Just wondering, what sort of life did you have before this girl? what type of family upbringing did you have? and then what type did she have?
If yours was pretty easy, with a good base family life and hers was messed up, abusive etc, then ive know males to fall majorly in love or what they think is love to a girl with problems, they try their best to help them, make them into a better person, try give them a life they never thought they could have...
But in reality they will test you, become scared and always wonder why you try to help them... if this girl had a bloke who treated her like ****, knocked her about, gave her what she gives others, i bet she'd be quiet as a mouse.. Its a mental game that she cant win with herself so she puts it on others..
This whole situation is text book, im not not beliving what you say at all, it happens out there, and for all those people out there who have a easy life or have never been involved in a violent relationship or abusive would find it hard to believe...
Just keep ya head down but sleep with one eye open.
If yours was pretty easy, with a good base family life and hers was messed up, abusive etc, then ive know males to fall majorly in love or what they think is love to a girl with problems, they try their best to help them, make them into a better person, try give them a life they never thought they could have...
But in reality they will test you, become scared and always wonder why you try to help them... if this girl had a bloke who treated her like ****, knocked her about, gave her what she gives others, i bet she'd be quiet as a mouse.. Its a mental game that she cant win with herself so she puts it on others..
This whole situation is text book, im not not beliving what you say at all, it happens out there, and for all those people out there who have a easy life or have never been involved in a violent relationship or abusive would find it hard to believe...
Just keep ya head down but sleep with one eye open.
Yeah... the police is going to tell her to stay away from me. I don't know if she would go as far as hiring someone to beat me or kill me but, if she texts me I can show the police that, if she comes here I have neighbours and friends around and I just won't open the door. To be honest if it gets really bad I will defend myself, I am not scared of her confronting me, it's her unpredictability and calculative ways that scare me, but I will just have to try and stay on guard and away as much as possible... I actually hope she goes to Thailand on Monday, then I don't have to worry for at least a Month...
I know I was stupid and did wrong by enabling her but what I gave her was pennies compared to what she spent. She believes in it so much, she is obsessed, just last week I literally watched her kids all week while she was in the bet shop with her friend, it's gotten worse since she started hanging out with one of her thai friends again because they are all the same, her friend is not psycho but in terms of gambling is even worse then her, works 2 jobs and goes to the casino every night and stays until 6-7am(45 minutes drive there and back), lives on coffee basically. When I try to call her on this she sticks to her friend side, I asked her, what kind of friend lets you spend all your holiday money on the bet shop? Doesn't she care for you? Her answer is always the same "No one can stop me", she's really childish, saying things like, don't tell me what to do, not even my dad tells me what to do, etc etc.
I never loved anyone as much as I loved her, I don't know if it was love or obsession but I honestly thought of her 24/7 and never did so much for any one, not in terms of money but also in terms of commitment and time and I never wanted to protect someone as much as her, I've done so many things for her,sometimes she never appreciates it... one time I filled my room with red roses, candles, rose petal bath, romantic music, food, wine, hearts, I cooked her dinner, etc, she left and went to the casino with her friend. Sometimes I think I was really stupid, not in love, but stupid.
I will. I even lock the doors now.
What you say is true, my upbringing is probably middle class and obviously in a much better and civilized country then Thailand, from what I understand she left her "village" at 10 to work, her dad was very abusive, beating her, siblings and mother up, even family members, her first husband raped her and she had to marry him (thai culture), cheated on her, abusive. I know she suffered in the past and that's why I keep making excuses for her but there's only so much someone can take.
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An abusive and poor childhood is no excuse to act like that as an adult, to be honest. There are loads of kids out there that have suffered as young children, but managed to come out of it as a better person. The ones that descend to the same level as adults, are the weak ones and will always find ways to make themselves feel strong, via abuse. Its better just to never see her again, not even look after her kids. No matter how much you love her or her kids, she needs to learn, and you must learn to be strong
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So is this crazy one the one who earned 140k? or were you cheating on the one you love so much with the one on 140k?
im confused.
im confused.
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OP is an habitual liar.
Nobody hates you here, you're over estimating our interest in you, I don't think anyone feels strongly one way or the other, perhaps indifferent would be the best description?
We are generaly amused however by your fantasy posts and your need for attention, good or bad. Perhaps it's time to speak to your family GP and work through the underlying problems?
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