makes a huge difference whether you have a 7800GTX 256 or 512.. i have the 256, and these are considerably slower than the 512s.
as far as drivers. I've tried a good few versions all with pretty much the same results.
If some of you guys are getting 30fps minimum (not average) with Fear running at 1920x1200 with 4xAA and 8xAF with softshadows and volumetric lighting turned on. then im very impressed.
Prey like i mentioned before is pretty damn solid as long as you dont have AA turned on, at any resolution - also on a side note.. its a Fantastic game.
quake you mentioned is based on the same gfx engine as prey (Doom3 engine) granted tweaked. so should give same results as prey.. no AA = solid enough framerate.
Would love to know your average framerate for oblivion?? as this does seem to be the current gfx killer.
What drivers are you running Scottfree?
I'm currently using 91.37s
Blackout - Yup the games mentioned do play considerably better at 1680x1050 but again soon as you crank up the AA settings even at these resolutions you realy are pushing a 256mb card to its limits.
You also have to consider that the unreal3 engine will be out soon in a few games, namely huxley and unreal tourn 2k7, these games are due before or during september. Our cards definately wont be upto these games at full res.
You could wait for the DX10 compatible cards .. which although its been mentioned theyre possibly out in october. are unlikely to be seen before the end of the year to coincide with vista early next year.
Personaly im going to buy one of the 7950s non overclocked (as i think the overclocked ones are having issues and you can always overclock it yourself and have the cheaper price

I'm not on a budget though, so when the dx10 cards do finaly come out ill just upgrade again (soon as vista is released).
Kinda depends on how long your willing to wait ? if you can put up with playing the current games at either full res with no AA (which to be fair.. at 1920x1200 is pretty damn crisp even without AA) or lowering the res and turning on the AA.
Personaly if you have some cash to burn get the 7950, theres nothing out there that can compete with this at the moment.. (as long as theres an sli profile for the game your playing).
Cheers
ROfu